Guys have you ever encountered this,? I remember one time I visited my friend and the wife served me tea with mahamri…the little brat alisongea karibu akamwaga chai ndani ya viatu zangu na akanipiga na mahamri kwa kwa uso.kenye iliniuma ni the ninja said “pole, uyu anakuanga ivo”. Sikuona any sign of remorse or willingness to instill discipline.
Mwingine nlimtembelea, mtoto wake alikua ananiskuma kutoka kwa kiti ati nitoke kwao
Hii ni shida ya spineless parenting by guys born from 1980 kuenda nyuma. Kuna time I visited a friend mtoi wake akaanza hizo antics… nilimpatia look equivalent to kibare chini ya maji… akaanza kuniambia hapo kwao, ni rudi kwangu. Nikatoa candy I had in my pocket nikajifanya nampea then put it in my mouth. Mtoi alitii… hii tabia ni common na watoi vijana.
Kuna duka nilienda, baba, mama na mtoi (8 or 9 years). Nilifurahishwa sana. Mtoi akipewa simu aweke mahali, anaiweka hapo bila hata kuchungulia au kuchezea.
In the good old days the whole village or mtaa helped raise batoto. A grown up could discipline any misbehaving kid without siasa mingi. These days things are very different.
Mimi mtoto akileta ujinga hata kama ni WA neighbour natandika yeye. Kesi baadaye. I have been in serious problems with people for disciplining their naughty kids.
mtoto ukianza kumwita baba na mama, this is the result.
a friend of mine has a kid with these kind of behaviors na ni kichwa ngumu,
i visited a friend of mine with a some guys, so our friend “the father to the kid”, calls his son akuje asalimie wageni, its a big 7 year old kid, and the kid was just tucked on the corner seat shaking his head “NO”, the dad and the mum were just smiling saying “huyu anakuwanga hivo”.
anyway kusalimia wageni is not important , but the fact that the father can be disobeyed on such simple instructions was really sad.