I quit drinking about month ago but now the biggest challenge is how to keep the social life afloat. Most of my friends are guys i used to drink with… villagers who don’t drink how the hell do you do this…!?
find other sports
Engage in other hobbies and activities
Tafuta single matha kwa plot. Within 6 months you will be running back to us saying afadhali pombe.
Kweli kabisa. Pombe is the better option.
Who says one has to drink alcohol to have a good social life?
Do you have any?
Life after alcohol is very easy and nice:tafuta your passion. Kama ulikua unefinya pause ama hukua umeanza(CPA and other things) rudi haraka upesi
I thought you were a sociopath?
I always want to quit alcohol but when i count the number of friends i will have left to hangout with naona hamna, coz even mwenye hakunywagi ni fisi, kuchapa soda water kwa club as he scouts for the next lay.
u see u can hang out with them and drink soda…or better say have few who are relevant.
there is no social life after alcohol. in the after-alcohol what we have is social death
Nunua cheki maneno and join a club.
I don’t drink and I’ve got friends I hang out with when I need to, and not because I’m an introvert . There’s lots of stuff to keep you engaged - Cheki maneno, sports, movies/cinema, alot of things you can do. You’ll discover there’s so much to do. Ama unywe soda wengine wakimeza fobe, I did that esp when I was in campus.
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I don’t drink and I’ve got friends I hang out with when I need to, and not because I’m an introvert . There’s lots of stuff to keep you engaged - Cheki maneno, sports, movies/cinema, alot of things you can do. You’ll discover there’s so much to do. Ama unywe soda wengine wakimeza fobe, I did that esp when I was in campus.
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btw Danji hajawai catch feelings
I feel stupid for answering a stupid question like this.
I don’t have a social life and it isn’t because I don’t drink alcohol.
As some have pointed out there’re many social activities that don’t require alcohol to be consumed.
This was on medium some few days ago. Might be of help https://medium.com/@andymboyle/what-i-learned-not-drinking-for-two-years-c94167ecd329#.ivaj0jpak
Movies, sports, bible study groups,the internet, school just to name a few drinking is a habit and just like any other it can be replaced …