So, you have this female work colleague who wants to be more than just a work colleague. And being aware of the risks involved in tango-ing with a female work colleague, and the office politics in the event that things go south, you confront her and you be like:
“You are not going to like this. This aint for me. And I’m sorry but I’m afraid I cant do it anymore. Now, my problem here has been that I like you, I’ve always liked you. Collaboratively here at work, the stuff that we have done together successfully has been phenomenal and I would like nothing better than that.The good moments we have shared are awesome and at some point in time, in the future, I would like us to be able to get back to that point.But for right now,in order to preserve the memories of the positive memories of the things we have done, I am out for now!”
At this point,you change your demeanor, place her pale block D kwa calls,whatsapp etc.So no nyef nyef stuff unless its work related, period! Watu wakutane kazini!
You just keep pumping the puthy until she asks that silly question they all bring up… what are we?.. then you proceed to tell her you are my buddy. She will leave in peace.