Given that I am at a progressed age, I have had my fair share at dating
If any of those had been successful, i would have filled my house with not less than 3kids by now
When you’ve failed at it this couple of times, your perception of relationships and the opposite sex warps
You become very suspicious, very sensitive and lack enthusiasm in any potential or real relationship
There are no good women any more
What we have are individuals who are materialistic and cant commit to a single man with the expectation of nikah/marriage
Women are the new men at dogging
Thats where our parents, imams/pastors and senior friends come in
If you are not married; chill out
Have fun, mingle with the opposite sex, learn them
When you are ready to settle
Inform the above
Dont go for education, class or whatever
They wont disappoint you as much as you have let yourself down so far
I am pretty sure, they will arrange for you a good lady, maybe she only got to class 4, but she is a jewel, commits to you, looks up to you for direction, doesnt argue with your informed decision
You tell a pastor or a relative that you’re looking to get married if they know of a person they think you’ll be a perfect match they should introduce you two to each other.
Arranged marriages is forceful like what they do to underage girls in some communities in KE.
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