There is an emerging trend today in Kenya where ladies, especially the urban ones with good education and jobs, are opting to become single mothers by choice, and not by default ( death of spouse or divorce). They are willing to have someone give them kids based on that person’s aspects like good looks or intelligence, and are good to go raising that kid without the involvement of that ‘father’. Am curious to know, aren’t there negative psychological effects on that kid in the long run? Isn’t it an emotional torture when such kids grow up listening to fellow kids talking about their dads? As a man, would you agree to sire a kid who you will not play an active or direct role in raising whether emotionally or financially? Personally, I wouldn’t like, hell no! (The feeling of a crying kid running towards my open arms ready to receive her is just priceless). And to the ladies, what exactly would prompt one to taking such an action of becoming a single mother by choice? Or we men have simply become too irresponsible that our presence are no longer needed in bringing up a proper family? Thoughts?
In a word: Feminazism.
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A feminazi want supremacy over men. They use authoritarian methods to reach their goals as well as violence. This is why they are called radicals. They do not care about facts and anyone who isn’t a feminist clearly hates women and if they are a women then they hate themselves. Men are the enemy in this equation which is why they protests domestic abuse shelters for men. Efforts to help men are seen as taking from women.
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hawa single mother husaidia sana dry spell hupeana kuma rahisi kuliko madem wengine unakula but huoi
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hili swali ni kama lilikuwa limeulizwa na lightskin siku ingine…
They should see what the lack of father figures has done to the black race in America !
It has a very negative impact. Especially on the girls. Most cannot keep a home because they do not know the roles of each person in a marriage. Then opt for single motherhood and the negative cycle continues.
Its called a curse
So if I impregnate a girl and take off I’ll simply be fulfilling a curse that is on her life.
Sidio?
Sonoka mûno
Wee wako wengi … I know of one alisema anajua haezi kuwa wife ya mtu na amejiitikia
She, a neighbour, single madre, even offered to wash my clothes but I declined.
What has it done? Enlighten us
i bet it was,but this village has a good amount of generally slow folks
single mum by choice is kinda selfish kwanza kama ni boy child… huyo mama haoni importance ya mtoto kuwa na baba yet yeye huplay crucial role ya kumould mtoto …
watoto wa most single moms wanakuwanga na discplinary issues mtoto kuna age hufika na yeye ndiye kusema inabidi ata waitiwe karao or some elders waongeleshewe
these days kuna masissy wengi pia and they still on the rise
these kinda women though view men as a problem and hindrance to their free lifestyle
by the time they start thinking about all these problems n if it woulda bn nice if they were a family with baby daddy it would have been too late
Sometimes ni mongo huwa anakimbia tu na kuhepa. Na wasichana wakiwa wachanga huwa hawajui kuchagua waume wazuri. To a teenage girl, best guy is the one who knows the latest dance moves, can drink three days and nights straight, drives a car at 200kph while fucking, and fucks her in the gents when no one is looking because they think that he is tons of fun! Until she gets pregnant and the guy dives.
@M2Random kuja hapa, your PhD is needed here
Na hawa single mothers wote Hua
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the reverse is true most lanyes are single mother they provide good service to disadvantaged boychild bila mistari and dry spell times
Do you suggest the govt should set a latex manufacturing plant?
after it makes the condoms will it make people use them?