Single mother manenos

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@Unataka kujua ili?

Meet a girl who is carrying another man’s baby.
Make plans to marry her months after the fact
Introduce the woman to your family
Support her financially
Go through the trouble of convincing the girl’s previous lover to be involved in her life.

4chan huh?

[Bachelor]

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So I told him hata si mtoto wako (She is NOT your Kid) [/QUOTE]

She’s lucky the guy still sends rent after this very unfortunate statement. Huge red flag right here. It has ‘toxic’ written all over it. The only mistake the guy is committing is not running fast enough for the hills. This is a heartbreak waiting to happen.
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@Purple

Of course she wants to pin down this man for his resources. That’s not unusual, single mother or not. It’s female nature to seek out the best provider. Let’s not focus on the obvious. What’s peculiar is how a man can offer himself as a husband to a pregnant single mother, with no strings attached yet the country is brimming with young, childless women. One reason why I don’t trust his motives is his insistence on dating for 2 years. It makes no sense. He’s a Christian and dating for that long simply opens up a portal for fornication. Number 2, he had no right to go behind her back looking for her baby daddy. They’re not even married, talk is cheap. That’s what we call kuingilia mtu. He’s too controlling sheesh. The fact that he’s throwing a major tantrum and sulking over what she chooses to do with her child is another red flag. Don’t lose sight over the fact that he hasn’t married her or even paid dowry. Just cheap, empty talk about doing it in future “two years time.” He’s the kind of man who takes desperate women to cloud nine with fake promises of marriage only to gaslight her later on and dump the lady with a second child to boot.

Basss. You have figured it out. He wants to impregnate her then be remote controlling her when he is in another marriage. After all she will have been brainwashed by him to the point of being a marionette and her first kid will have gotten attached to him as his dad ensuring total control of the woman. Btw men in church can be worse than even worldly men. They feel like they are God’s gift to women.

[Unataka_kujua_ili]

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4chan huh?

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