Being a last born i believe have gone through shiat(sh!tya Introvert) that i hope my last born wont experience.Starts in high school as a mono(Ditchez Nairobi) with immediate bro as a Head boy.From pocket money to long sleeved shirt to special meals i missed all these despite the bro factor.Finished fourth course to persue decided by the same bro with zero tolerance of resistance,paroz believed he knew best.
Career starting in Embu where hauna ndugu hauna dada ukisota jipange.Retrenchment back to tarmacking,working in Nairofi together but cant share a bottle of Johny walker or FAXE.
Ukipata kaswende wewe unajitafutia cash ukadungwe shindano(they used to ask for your partner)You climb the corporate ladder and youhave Titles and surbordinate staff under you but ukisema ile German sheppart(sio yaango) inunuliwe nyororo iwache kurandaranda mchana you are told you are too quick in your decisions,paroz age funeral and successions kila mtu is too busy with their FAMILIES.
When you prosper while they stagnate,“unaringa na sisi ndio tulikupanguza makamasi”.How does someone stop this craziness of siblings/family bringing you down?What happened to blood is thicker than water?Enyewe with Ktalk apart from kaa----------pale for a NV its a family worth crying for as lon as my laptophas battery.
I will raise my kids in a differnt way.
End of rant.
hehehehe. kwani parents wenu walikuwa gsu?
This is so familiar
Zile dorms za mabati…wueh…
Eish…But change starts with you. they have built a wall, and if you go ahead and build your wall as well, then all hope is lost. Don’t loose hope in them as long as there is still something worth redeeming, and your rant says there is
sibling rivarly haigwes isha. hata ukilea watoi tofauti aje haitawazuia kupigana ama kuoneana wivu at one point of their lives
older siblings tend to be bossy and condescending plus it never stops
The wivu thing is not true. Depending on how the parent and the sibling handles it, it can be a sense of admiration!
Kama meetings tuseme twice in a year ama hata Krisi pekee HAKUNA,when do you try to Iron out your differences?Kila mtu oooh job hawatanipa ruhusa,this iswhat makes a small pupu become sewage,watu wanafa waongeleshane
wivu and sense of admiration are two different things bana. but i agree the rivarly is mostly induced by parents behaviour especially where they seem to favour some children over others.
Completely opposite. If you are the type which looks for your siblings ukiwa Na shida, don’t expect any positive response from them.
Ushawai ambiwa heshimu your elder bro ama wachia your small siz siunajua yeye ako Ashmatic,why is it so hard to be understood?
Bossssss kuna kitu inaitwa mentorship na kuna ingine inaitwa assistance,hapana confuse.Watch the current coke advert(if in Kenya) kisha unijibu.
sibling rivalry can be toxic if the father does not step in early enough to clarify issues and iron out the differences
Not to brag but that thing is not in my code.
Lucky to be from a small family.
I even got my younger bro placed in a job to add experience,
told him its only a way pointer, once established he can go for bigger prey.
A person who can assist you can also mentor you.try to iron out the differences like making surprise visits to your brothers. Ukiangukia deal unamtafuta Na kwenda out pamoja or going home and having an emergency party as a family.unanunua mbuzi mnapika and rapport will come naturally.na Mimi Sina TV
Good for you umesaidia wewe,ndugu yako na familia.Imagine a family in a village discussion with siblings as numbers:-
1.Hawker uko Mogodashe
2.Bado ako Kamiti hii ni mwaka wa nane.
3.Anaonekananga pale Sj 7 days a week na watoto wake wote wako oshago hawaendi shule tangu mzee apotelee
4.Huyo ni mechanic pale Dandora
5.Huyo ni Proffessor wa Actuarial Science University of Minnesota
6.Huyo ni cyber attendant yeye huwa Ktalk kila saa???
Kukuelewa ni ngumu but I get the gist of your rant. Sometimes parents favor one sibling over the other and this can be disappointing.
If the situation is like that, it’s hard. I get you now.
buda vitu zingine huwa watu kuwa na tabia mbaya hata sio parenting. e.g ukipatana na mtu mzee kukuliko huku nje na haumjui si utamheshimu, sa mbona usiheshimu bro wako mkubwa?
same case na na story ya asthma, kama unaeza achia mtu ashmatic hujui huku nje mbona usiwachie sis yako??
hizi vitu hata tukilaumu parenting bado character ya mtu matters. ndio maana unaona wanaume wazima wanapigania kaploti kamoja ama kashamba acre mbili zenye zimewachwa na mzazi yet kila mtu anaeza afford kujinunulia acre kama tano