My dad held a job for 25 years. He had a senior position Couldn’t grow further due to being from the wrong tribe, and needed political intervention to take the top position. Anyway he was beloved. All family disputes, money… by coworkers, was on speed dial to resolve. He took the plunge and went solo consultancy. About a year later, we were with him and decided to visit his old office. Kufika uko, those employees barely said hi, barely moved from their chairs. You are employed somewhere, you are just a number.
Kama unatoa pesa ya contributions to a Whatsapp group ya colleagues hiyo ni NONSENSE…
Cuzo wako wanalala njaa ocha. And colleagues u send them 5k when they graduate/ marriage.
75% of those people will never attend ur funeral
Some hate u bitterly and wish u fall
Put family first
Kama ni kuma unataka kutoka colleague it ALWAYS ends badly. Sijawi ona watu wamekulana kwa office ata wakisalimiana tena. They ignore each other tena sana
This is the thing that keeps me sane. I never slept with any of my colleagues, which has really paid dividends when people actually find out my career trajectory. My advice for men is to keep your penis in your underwear.
I used to sleep with colleagues, until one of them got me fired and it took me some time to get a bearing in life, nilisota walai that time I remember surviving on Smokie pasua na mkate, movies na playing games all day, and occasional CV writing and sending. The Payroll lady was a friend at first, I used to call her asking when they will pay my leave allowance and last emoluments, until she stopped taking my calls, and they still never paid me, Damn!. All the girls I used to shag in the office, some of whom had confessed to falling in love with me, left. Later I was told that everyone used me as an example in that office…
Mbona mnatake life seriously, you forget the only reason you are alive is your parents were having Sweetness and you came out,just like billions of human beings.
Sasa hapa ndio shida huanza, if you have high/above average IQ you start thinking you are important/there is a reason you exist, there is none.
If you were popped in 1624, you had more ‘meaning’ because you interacted daily with people close to you.
If you popped out in 1989-2007, you are fucked, already the western industrialized market has taken hold of your environment and told you if you study a stem accredited course, you are important in your society, until you lack a slot in the market after acquisition of your gown/lose your job..
TakeHome:Nobody cares..
The only reason you were born is to cum inside and hopefully reproduce..the rest is vanity..maybe there is a ‘meaning’ in the foreseeable future(4500).
Personally nakufa peke yangu..
Na hii njaa yenu ya kumwaga at all costs…obviously office sex italeta shida…but mki take it slow na you pick your prey wisely huwezi burn your fingers.
Nyi hujifanya your the coolest dudes and dudettes in your offices and eryone else is a douche na im sure kuna watiaji galore hapa kwa hii jiji. Si kuna waseh hudoxiana hapa…anzia hapo.
Same story here.. never screwed a colleague or anyone in my industry, let alone even a random flirty text…i grew very very fast and eventually left formal employment …came to the conclusion that wherever production is concerned keep women far from you.. they are only experts in matters consumption…in other words they will have many opinions on how you should spend your money but offer very little help - sometimes they actually sabotage – when you are working to produce money.