Drama ziko Kenya wah.
Do you believe these shows?
This is Kenya my fren there are worse things than this happening. This is nothing.
All you need is a fertile mind to appear on these shows:D
Scripted chieth.
I doubt the woman invented the pasta who raped her; she names him. That is a very serious thing to say if it isn’t true.
They should all be named and shamed. People come to you for help then you rape them?
Some people are just hiding in the church, but they wouldn’t hesitate to take advantage of another person if opportunity avails itself. Ironically, there are lay people who are more straightforward than some pastors. How can a pastor be a rapist?!
You are absolutely right. Many pastors nowadays can not be trusted even with a glass of milk let alone a vulnerable woman. I met one through a lady pastor who was my friend, he later asked her for my number and started calling me at 10pm. I blocked him. Personally I am very careful with pastors, I don’t tell them my problems, I keep distance, I don’t want them knowing me, I don’t want to join them in defiling the altar of God.
There is a strategy that works if you don’t trust him: meet him accompanied by a friend of yours. It’s not safe for a woman to go to a man’s house alone, esp. one whose help she needs. If he’s genuine he won’t mind your friend being at the meeting place.
The most shocking part of this story is that I thought kula kuku na kifaranga is just a fantasy. Kumbe there are real people have chosen it be their reality. No words.
There was this man who once told me, never go to a man’s house, not even with a friend or friends , what will your friends do if you get there and after a group of men comes out of his bedroom.
Just meet in a public place. It’s safer. It’s less tempting to the ‘man of God’
There’s all kinds of evil people with no moral scruples in the world. It’s in your best interests to figure them fast and get out their path of destruction before they bring their demons into your life.
Going to the house of a man you don’t trust is of course dangerous. You must ask yourself why you should meet him at all, if you’re uneasy. But in this case the lady never suspected him, or she wouldn’t have gone.
A meeting at a restaurant is safe enough, but if it’s someone you don’t know well, you better have a friend sitting away from there to cover you in case of any issues–you could get drugged, and he pretends “his wife” is ill and he’s taking you away home or to hospital.
Isn’t a pastor human too? Aren’t they allowed to pursue women and get married too? How will a pastor get a wife if he doesn’t make those late night calls? Protestants criticize Catholic priests for celibacy saying it is unnatural, unsustainable. So why do you guys criticize pastors trying to hunt? You cannot have it both ways.
You should be uneasy about being anywhere alone with men period bcz most people who rape women are men they know very well and as a result, trust. When you are alone with someone five times stronger than you, you should not be at ease. The best thing is just avoid being alone in your home or theirs bcz that is how most rape victims end up in such situations. Better safe than sorry. Even if you appear paranoid.
No problem with that, but this case was different. They weren’t even dating, he was just her pastor. She went the guy’s house coz he had told he had found a job for her. Immediately she knocked he grabbed her and threw her down. No sane person would call that anything else but rape.
Sounds like a hekaya.
I don’t think it is. There are still some silly guys out there who think if a girl comes to his house she has come for sex. Even when you think such is the case, shouldn’t you behave like a normal person, make her comfortable, offer her a drink or a meal, talk, put her in the mood–at the very least, ask? Huo ni ufidhuli.