This is a very common problem in this country. I know a guy who was sacked by his female boss for refusing her advances.
Gey chiet
@TrumanCapote , hata Mimi if I am to give you tender mzito ya Millions, Lazima nikubomoe. Kwanza wewe I must take you to coast for a weekend. I bomoa you as we discuss your PhD thesis in between steamy rounds.
On a more serious note, Prof. Kaimenyi once said that a wife to a friend offered him mkia so that he could give her a tender.