Sex on first date or nah?

I was thinking about this . It has probably been said a couple of times hii topic. I’m here to say , kama mko interested in each other then vitu za upuzi kama hii haitawalimit .
Nyinyi wengine wa mind games mtacheza mchezo wa taon

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Kula kamaumeamua

Are you supporting or opposing this motion?

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Lanye ni 15 seconds. Niko na 150 ni sawa? Okay

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I thought shule ziko session ama umekuwa suspended ?

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I’m neither

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Enjoy yourself vile unapenda elder

I don’t know

if she likes and wants you, atakupea even after hours not a day

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There are no rules. It all depends on circumstances, including how hard both of you fall for each other. Sex is based on mutual consent. When, where, how long all depend on the mutual agreement of the two involved,

All these nonsense about rules only make an emotional occurance mechanical.

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normalize letting your intentions known well in advance, that’s if you see her as a fuckable human. you can then take the escalation at your pace. this keeps you out of friendzone whether you eat or you dont eventually. she should classify you amongst potential dickers not amongst her innocent brothers.

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I agree. If a man wanted to hit and run pia atago itaonekana

Well said elder :100:

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If i cant decolorise the river between with white paste on our first physical date i QUIT. I am not acting a season long soap opera or KhumKhum Bagya

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This here is a grossly underrated piece of advice. Tangu nigundue lanye sijawahi regret. Failure rate is lower than 1%.

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Honestly there’s never a reason to not have safe sex on the first meeting, except the woman’s fear of being seen as easy of course.
But me personally, I’ve made a lot of women wait for it, just as a power play. The begging really massages my ego.

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If it’s a kikekuyu yes. If it’s someone from another community local or international, no.

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Mimi hata mambo ya first date haikumake.. dame alijipa mwenyewe akaniambia twende nimwonyeshe gari. With 10 minutes nilikuwa ndani ya birth canal akiniambia nisipull na nimeingia raw. Thanks sana Ivy.

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Some of us date bana with interests for marriage

That’s you and it’s valid