Any pointers to a Love Sick professional eagerly seeking to win over a very sweet , very willing but very difficult and principled Thika based Disciple of the Lord into a life long MOU and all the “happy-ever-after” benefits thereof..??
Major sacrifices and lifestyle changes have already been agreed to but “progress” so far has been limited to long walks , cosy cuddles , warm hugs , intimate lunches , teas and dinners , mild kisses , words of encouragement and appeals for some patience while a final decision is soon to be made.
Another thing, you could be getting too familiar, maybe you are too available, so you aren’t being missed. You should disappoint her a bit: set up a date as usual, but cancel it last minute–hospital emergency. Then become quite busy for two weeks or so, till she really wants to see you. Say you are quite swamped in work, but you could squeeze in 2-3 hours of dinner with her at your place. Set up something quite nice, (don’t forget the Bubbly!), and you might be surprised at how the evening ends…
@Lionheart :
Good copy..
I tried inviting Her to the Lion’s Den but all I get is a cryptic smile and the remark that She will come when the time is right ..
Playing hard to get , or has She determined my eventual intention ( ..which guessing by her willing intimate touch and hugs..) She appears not strongly opposed to..??
They all need to be goaded into where they long to be. You must lead, and nudge her forward a little as needed. There is no manual, because every woman is different. But acting like you can’t make to her place could prompt her to whip herself into coming kichinjioni. Not that she doesn’t know what to expect, she just wants the decency to pretend (naturally) she only came because you insisted. It always feels nice to make you feel guilty😆
Methinks it would not be good for @TrumanCapote to miss. But odd numbers like 3 are awkward to work with, she’d be in the way. So, it means I’m invited😆
Truwoman, what say you?
And my greatest concern is you could be treating her too respectfully because of her vocation, fearing she’ll think you are wicked. But she knows! BTW, I made such stupid mistakes in the past. When alone, ignore all that, be yourself and be a bit naughty–let your hands wander everywhere; slap dat ass–she’s not your sister, and you are not inviting her for your deliverance. Treat her as you would any other woman that you want madly.
Hehehehe!
Men are God’s property too, so that’s nothing; there’s no harm done–yet. Please tell me in 7 printed pages of spiritual wisdom, why they are invariably created curvy, smooth, soft, large and warm, and why men’s hands defy that teaching and want to spank them. No degrees can help you defend that “logic”
Oh, many years ago, a pastor’s wife pecked me on the corner of the mouth during a brotherly embrace, and because I reasoned foolishly, I didn’t spank her "in reprimand"
But that was then…
Oh great, that means there’s hope, even for someone with a startling visage like @Yuletapeli
So @rexxsimba must not falter. The only way is forward: press on till you hit the target.
), and you might be surprised at how the evening ends…
