Sadness of marriage

Roses have thorns

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One rule in my life: Kwnye niko lazima bibi awe karibu.

You never know what is cooking while you are away.

Then upate kuna ndume anakuwai ngumi ati unakula slices zake na wewe ulishalipia hizo slices eons ago

Silence is always the best medicine.

NO DRAMA
JUST PACKING
AND ZOOMING OFF.

AND WITH THE KIDS IF POSSIBLE

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Ukipata jamaa anaonja mali yako…shida si yeye. The wife agreed to it.
We all know our women wanakatiwa left right and centre thats no brainer. But They should also know out of marriage sex has consequences in times to come. Same case to hyenas with wedding rings. Some times polygamy is better than having a wife and several hoes in tow. All in all i believe ones marriage will work the way the parties want it to be.
And also ego and attitude plays a rather big role. Be faithful na drama haitawai kuwa.

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I think u get used to it with time…there was a ploti i used to live back then, bibi alikuwa anapigwa ata akiwa na boll anatorokea kwa neiba…kuna day walitoana mbio nje ya gate, jamaa alinyonga bibi(kumkaba koo) hadi akatoa kinyesi…next day bibi alikua akiota jua hapo nje tu:):slight_smile:

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was it on the ground floor?

We can call it the age of deceitful socialism in marriage.

noma sana mimi nimewahi kua na live in girlfriend siku tulikosana she stood at the door and shouted all manner of expletives at me, smashed a window and attempted to pour water on my TV which was on… I could not handle the amount of attention that her actions directed towards me… Nilitoroka for a week crashed at a friend’s place, got a house elsewhere and moved out in the dead of night {mambo ya deposit sahau} only the caretaker knew I was moving. Sijui kama naweza handle issues zangu zikiwa zinajulikana na neighbors

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Did you reconcile and take afew slices ama ni potea for good?

potelea for good, someone that is willing to ruin your reputation is worse than a murderer (reputation is King) afadhali hata ani play, ukiendea slices za mwisho ni kujikaanga na cum yako mwenyewe buda

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potelea for good, someone that is willing to ruin your reputation is worse than a murderer (reputation is King) afadhali hata ani play, ukiendea slices za mwisho ni kujikaanga na cum yako mwenyewe buda

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not all women can handle their cool…you did the right thing by not letting the anger take charge over you

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And this is why people are failing in marriage. They are so far from God the author of the marriage institution. People do not bother to read the bible to see what roles they should play in marriage as instructed by God. The only time they involved God was on their wedding day when they said their vows n thought that was it! Its like buying a plane or a helicopter, you throw away the manual and assume that u gonna guess which buttons to press and its gonna be just fine!

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A quick question,

Does modern-day feminism conform with the bible?

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When I was young I detested men who beat up on their wives lakini I’ve come to realise a slap or two is inevitable. There are women who will follow you kwa ploti hurling insults, tug at your shirt telling the whole world that wewe ni kipii… TWAAFFFF

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Ulihamishaje vitu?

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Lorry, care taker was in the know so it was easy. I used to come for a few days in the evening and pack some small items kama nguo, utensils etc that can fit in the car and drive off with them so when the D-day came for moving, only the large movable things were around and it was a quick mission with two extra hands to assist. Luckily the girl moved in only with her clothes, make-up and lap-top so no complications there

Na huyo manzi alikuwa wapi ukihama? Noma sana.

after tukosane hivyo si mtu ni kujitoa hehehe, ningekubali arudi kwa hiyo hao and vile she was hell bent on destroying my stuff? NO WAY bana. luckily enough she had only moved in with her lap top, nguo and make up handbags hizo vitu za wasichana, she found a full house

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Nambona kukanyangia hekaya?

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