Most of my relationships zimekuwa casual relationships so sijakuwa na any need ya kuset boundaries sana.
Is it true that kama bibi yako ananenda mahali lazima akuombe ruhusa ama awe amerudi a certain time. pia unamkataza avae nguo fulani.
It seems kiundu crazy kidogo
Ask yourself if you would be comfortable if your wife dressed skimpily and came back at odd hours of the night while you were at home watching the kids
It is not crazy. You have to understand YOU are the one responsible for her actions and emotions. Accountability ya relationship is all on you. Same way you can suggest msitembee usiku no matter how much she wants to ju majambazi wakitokea it’s up to you to do the protecting.
Kwa hivyo any stupid thing she does is still on you. So why not reduce the likelihood of those stupid things happening?
Kwani ni mtoto wako?
Do some men decide to date just any woman on impulse ndio baadaye you start to control and try to mould them as you would like.
Admin leta full hekaya, umekuliwo khupipi au?
If anything happens to her, it’ll be on you to fix it. If she goes out with her girlfriends and gets too drunk to come home, guess who she calls? If she’s coming home late and some hoodlum rapes her, guess who’s paying for all the medical care and therapy sessions? If some asshole steals her phone on her way home, guess who’s buying a new phone? If you’re responsible for the consequences of her actions, then you should have the authority to determine her actions. Sort of the same thing you do with your children