Short and straight forward opinions required here for my own quick digestion.
There is a lady, a young voluptuous and beautiful one - i won’t share any photos or contacts; that i have been seeing on and off.
Things are now heated because she is talking about having a child with me and this idea is also being pushed by her mom who happened to meet me and the lady later mentioned to me that her mum seemed “impressed” by me.
Sasa msichana wa wenyewe is on my neck, to an extent of telling me i just stay alert juu mimba anataka na atashika, so nikae nikijue things are about to go down. I have told her that am not ready for that but she is adamant.
So, swali ni hili… could this be a set up by a mother and her daughter to trap this middle-aged young old man(myself) or i am just scared for nothing?
Share your honest opinions/advice however insults are not necessary!!
Sio kwa ubaya sijasoma hadi mwisho. Chenye najua tuu ni kwamba this post is onme of the reasons why I am a strong AMG member and MGTOW=FREEDOM. Ama namna gani @Yuletapeli ?
Mimba is a trap bro. I guess you are well off. Her mom gave her a go ahead to get PG for you and thats how she will secure the bag. Fear women my friend.
Peana mimba leo kesho ujipata mbele ya judge juu ya child support.
How old is she? Kama ako above 27 then she could just be racing against her biological clock. If she’s young then amekuonea kwa umbali. She’s seen someone who can take care of her for the rest of her life and her mother agrees. It could go either way. Ni wewe kuamua juu wewe pekee ndio unamjua. Swali ni, does she display kunguru tendencies? Bottom line, kunguru hafugiki.
Your life will never be the same. Be serious about it and tell her you will be using rubber since you are not ready for kids. Also tell her you are considering ending the relationship. It’s your life, don’t please anyone else for whatever reason. I have my struggles with such.