If Jeff Mwathi was a woman, we all know how the collective conversation especially among men would be going. What kind of a woman goes partying in 4 different clubs, drinking all night with her clients and what did she expect was going to happen once she agreed to go up to an apartment with a bunch of drunk men? Why did she think that they were buying her alcohol and taking her up to their apartment? For a session of prayer? Anyone remember the woman who was raped by an MP while working late?
We all remember Wendy who was raped by two rugby men. Every detail of her story was nit picked to conclude that she was asking for the rape by going to a man’s house while drunk from her birthday party?
There’s something I always keep telling you about men. Once men get used to violating women and not only getting away with it but also being validated by a patriarchal society, they stop getting a thrill out of it and become Predators of children and men.
In the Bible we see instances where men who were homosexuals would go to any house with a male visitor and demand to sodomise the visiting man. Men generally embrace depravity but bcz violating women and disrespecting them is a thing in a patriarchal society, its no longer thrilling to rape women then victim blame and shame them. They now want to rape their fellow men and after that they want to violate children. Btw plenty of African societies celebrate child marriage so girl children are also not protected in our African societies which are extremely partriachal.
Currently the gey community is pushing for the lowering of age of consent for boys to 12. Meaning a gey man can groom a child and then molest him and it would be legal. We all know how men rape animals. Basically if it has a heartbeat the they’re down to ferk. Seriously I don’t know what went wrong with this gender we coexist with. They are so driven by lust and depravity that they can do anything to nut…
The thing is that after gang rapes the final bonding ritual is killing the girl. It then becomes a secret pact between them. There’s thousands of stories where they kill the girl after gang raping her.
My advice to women is that men have a demonic sexual streak in them. It’s what makes them feel powerful and invincible. So before you can learn this the hard way like Jeff Mwathi follow these rules.
Always avoid drinking with men. Avoid being alone with a man anywhere including in a matatu or lift. If there’s no other woman, you wait for the next lift or mat. If you’re taking a taxi order the one driven by women. Enough women have been raped by taxi drivers and nduthi guys especially after dark. If you work late have an extremely sharp knife in your desk in case your male colleague or client or boss tries to rape you. You stick that knife so deep in his jugular vein that he will bleed out in 5 minutes. It’s either you or him. You are fighting for your life here. He can rape you and toss you out the window. Let us be careful with men and teach the young people both male and female that men are dangerous creatures. This week I saw a story of a nduthi guy whose lip was bitten off by a male client who attempted to make sexual advances at him. He went to his house and was offered alcohol as the client said he had money in the house to pay for the ride. Someone here said Malaya akikufa hakuna hasara. Well if you go to a man’s house you are considered one. If you go on a drinking spree you are one. If you’re alone anywhere with a man it’s your fault for getting raped. The double standard is what got Jeff killed. He thought that that shit only happens to women. I’m safe in the company of men. More so a famous man. And theres women. What can possibly happen when I’m with my female business partner Faith Mutanu? What? Well, we all know that nothing will stop a lustful man or men. Not even being in a group. Safety in numbers doesn’t apply when it’s men who you are dealing with. Men’s homes aren’t called kichinjio for nothing. Ask Jeff Mwathi. He was chinjwad with three women present.
I’m very sorry for the mother of Jeff but I thank God that finally it’s a man in the shoes of the terror women go through from birth to death. Fear of rape. If you are a days old baby, a child or an 80 grandmother, you will still be at risk of being raped. You can’t change the world but you can create a buffer. Don’t put yourself in a situation where you can become a victim. Better paranoid than raped or worse dead like Jeff.