Problem Child

[Oxygen]

@Condor

Mcooshite Miraa na bangi ni mbaya.

Hapana,these are herbal ni kama tu vegetables:D:D:D

[Finest_wine]

Ka-Tony sio huyo pekee. Ni wengi sana. But addiction is an illness. Pray for the person to come to their senses as they can only be helped if they want to be helped. Kwanza this young generation wameanza kuambia wazazi that they are gay.
As Uwes says don’t give up on them. Wetu alipotea njia but huwa tunakazana akitokea.

[Finest_wine]

@Oxygen

I am also the last born na niko na kichwa msuri kushinda older siblings wengine,issue ya generalization ya lastborns si ukweli.

Addictions can hit any member of the family.

[Longpole]

Does he like pussy? If he does don’t worry one of those will settle him down for good.

Give him responsibilities, don’t send him to isolo. Apewe kazi hapo yenye he knows people depend on it/him. A friend who was this problematic was sent laundry machines to start a business in Kisumu, he was from Nakuru, he sold them and drunk the cash. Kurudi naks akasumbua, akapewa kazi kwa shamba yao, their main source of cash. Guy went straight.
Another was Mwai a well educated family nuisance hit some good pussy. Nuisance became a thing of the past

[Randy]

@Bingwa Scrotum

Poleni …but it must be the alcohol. Weed doesn’t do that.

And by the way, ikifika hapo ni spiritual. She needs to be prayed for.

Haija anza juzi… she went to 3 high-schools juu ya kusumbua we have tried everything mpaka maombi.
She was married to good nigga with a good job akasumbua uyo jamaa karibu achizi.

[Tommy_Lee_Sparta]

@Randy

Your situation isn’t unique … its very common to have a problem child in your family. I have a female cousin who is 41 but she is a troubled soul everything in her life she destroys. As we speak she has abandoned her 12 yr old daughter for like 3months na hakuna msee anajua mahali yuko. She has done this so many times mpaka tumechoka but she eventually shows up.
Amazingly, she book smart.

kungu haijawai fungika

[Kemoi]

@Longpole

Does he like pu**y? If he does don’t worry one of those will settle him down for good.

Give him responsibilities, don’t send him to isolo. Apewe kazi hapo yenye he knows people depend on it/him. A friend who was this problematic was sent laundry machines to start a business in Kisumu, he was from Nakuru, he sold them and drunk the cash. Kurudi naks akasumbua, akapewa kazi kwa shamba yao, their main source of cash. Guy went straight.
Another was Mwai a well educated family nuisance hit some good pu**y. Nuisance became a thing of the past

You can’t cage down this guys over pussy. There addiction (drugs) comes first on their list of priorities. My elder brother used to steal from the wife, yet it’s the wife who used to fend to feed and cloth his children. All family jobs we’ve tried to secure for him he’s lost. To top it off he tries to bring it down by talking I’ll of the other employees and acting bossy around them. The only way to help is let them be.
Case ya kah-tony be strict upon him asiguze mali ya wazazi. Let him find other means to fund his addiction.

[bure]

@Longpole

Give him responsibilities, don’t send him to isolo. Apewe kazi hapo yenye he knows people depend on it/him

I think you might have not dealt with such a case…they don’t want responsibilities… Wao wanataka starehe na wapewe za starehe

[Murang_a]

You’re to blame for his evils…hiyo hongo unakulanga ndo inalipizwa

[digi]

No worry. As long as you can see him every now and then, let him be. Advice him apunguze kidogo tu. He is well loved and no one should dictate how to love the young man. Depression is a tough road. Mkimfukuza its not everyone who manages to survive. Sasa akikufa huko nje, mtabaki mkilia mkisema heri angekunywa bangi hapo nyumbani kwa yard at least angekuwa hai. Saa zingine wazazi waache ufala.

[ChifuMbitika]

@uwesmake

mimi am my brothers keeper hawezi lala njaa nikiwa alive. but kama ni mwizi au involved in any other crime i cut him off. but kama ni ulevi na laziness. just try to make sure he ako straight before finishing university, try kusaidia wazazi apate papers aanze ujinga after graduating , eventually he will see the light better he sees the light with papers hata akiwa 60 years, unaweza mtafutia job mahali.

Uliachana na momos?

[raider]

@kah tony

Wadau, Mimi I am 2nd born wa familia middle upper class if not upper echelon karibu na akina Ngina, Fidel(RIP) na Muhoho. Mimi na wenzangu wa tumbo moja tumesomea academies na majuu. Lakini iko Shida na last born.

Everyone is mature kwa watoto 5 lakini cushite mmoja in queshen ndio ameleta shida sana. Kazi ni pombe, bangi, Netflix, PS, sports betting na wanawake. Ako karibu 30 na kazi ni kuchoma AddisAbaba na kuishi na wazazi. Kijana hadi amenunuliwa ngamia kumi ya kuanza biz huko Isiolo but wapi…A few months its all amounted to zero. Unaweza aje poteza ngamia 10?

Hii maisha ni ngumu as it is and wazazi naona wanateseka sana but mtoto ni wao, wameshughulika wakachoka. Mimi Kama SV kwa hiyo boma nawaambia kijana afukuzwe nyumbani ajipange kama mbwa mwitu lakini hawataki hiyo maneno.

Advice yoyote naweza saidika. Asante.

define middle class first. we all have different perceptions of that term

[Siko_Twitter]

@syndicate

NEVER

Never say never
But swali ni? Unasaidia watu wenu kwani umerogwa?

[kah_tony]

@wickednwild

Hapa kuna kaukweli,papers are so so important,so shugulika for him to graduate alafu look for a job for him,the independence will make him more reliable and mature

@uwesmake
Kijana alikuwa majuu. Alisoma but akamess up mahali so he had to come back. Hakumaliza course yote but mahali alikuwa amefika alikuwa amepass.

[Hesabu]

He should be kicked out, simple.

[wickednwild]

let him enroll at our local universities,its never too late.Mabudha tulisoma na hao chuo wacha tu,age is no barrier hapa kanairo

@kah tony

@uwesmake
Kijana alikuwa majuu. Alisoma but akamess up mahali so he had to come back. Hakumaliza course yote but mahali alikuwa amefika alikuwa amepass.