Prisca Mwaro: What it's like to be wifed by a powerful man in Kenya

The late Prisca Mwaro, MHSRIP, married Ababu Namwaba in 2015, by 2018 they had two sons and a daughter. This was when Namwabas first wife a magistrate had gone out of the country to study, as happened to Kajwang the late first wife. Ababu then impregnated Priscas niece and dumped Prisca but not before getting full custody of her kids and denying her complete access to the kids. Since 2018, Prisca has been in and out of psychiatric hospitals because of severe depression and suicidal ideation. She finally sucumbed to depression which women go through after betrayal, abandonment and complete denial of acess to their children.

Lessons for Kenyan women. In Kenya if you are not wealthy and powerful but your partner is, he can take away your child even if he is not the biological father of the child. This happened to a single mother who had a boy before she moved in with Makokha Kwamchetsi, a powerful journalist. After the break up the lady flew to Australia to seek greener pastures. Makokha went to her parents home with the police and court orders and took the boy. Makokha is unable to sire kids of his own so he has no biological children. This turn of events led to the death of her dad bcz of stress induced high blood pressure. She returned home and was completely denied acess to her child. She requested DNA test to prove that he wasn’t the father but Makokha bribed his way out of that. So even if the man ain’t the biological father if he’s more powerful than you or has better connections, he can still take your child away from you.

Secondly Kenya is a highly patriarchal society. So rulings in children’s courts mostly favour men. If there is a quick way to kill a mother it is completely denying her access to her kids and men know that. So if a man wants to destroy you completely, this will be the first step. Judges also favor the more moneyed partner which is usually the man.

In conclusion I say, give birth for a chimpanzee at your own risk. Just buy white sperm of your choice and cut out the middle man after that avoid all contact with men bcz even if your kid is half white a chimpanzee can still get sole custody of your child. Don’t get carried away by excitement of being wifed, you will end up as a breeding heifer, you give birth and then you are thrown away like a used tissue and denied access to your kids completely which will destroy you psychologically. For your peace of mind avoid these our blackies. You better pay half meter for junguu kid who is coming with no baggage. Peace and health mean alot. Don’t let a chimpanzee kill you with stress when you have options thanks to science. This lady was too young to die and leave her kids but chimpanzees are on her FB wall gloating over her death. Those are black men for you. They will not even spare a dead woman lying cold in a morgue. They are rejoicing over her death. These chimpanzees are not your friends do not let the ruse deceive you. They hate you with a passion. Why have kids with a man who hates you when junguu kids are available to you? Junguu ndio best. It also sends a clear message to chimpanzees that they are beneath you and that will keep them off of you so that you can raise your kids in peace and tranquility. Rest well Prisca God has done what has pleased Him.

One thing I forgot. If a man can cheat on or leave his life with or for you, or divorce his wife after swearing before God until death do us part, he can do the same to you. It will end in premium tears.

So Prisca was a second wife? But dude was all over the place. Impregnated his uncles wife, impregnated his niece….
But I think she OD’d after a night of heavy partying at her birthday. Remember in Luhya custom, the man keeps the kids. So it’s not like he won custody.

Custody should be 50/50 under the law but in Kenya you can be denied even visitation with your own child . She oded on what? You always have the strangest excuses about how people die.

So where is the magistrate wife? Apparently Prisca and the guy were cohabiting. What about the story of Kajwang (MHSRIP)? I missed that too

They had a party the night before. I believe it was her birthday. Next day she was found dead. Courts always give rights to women in Kenya unless there’s a significant underlying condition. What reason did they have to deny her rights??

When his wife went abroad to study he married another woman

You obviously don’t know how Kenyan courts work when dealing with someone powerful in the society

No ma’am.

You are very right
The constitution preferentially gives priority to women’s and children’s right.Kapoti always pulls ‘facts’ out of her ass.

There’s a guy I work with whose wife sued him for child support, yes, his wife, courts clerks would come for money from him to ‘misplace’ the file so that he never had a mention date. Kenya is corrupt to the core. Even a small man can corrupt those clerks leave alone an Ababu Namwabas

But there are so many pictures of Priscah with the Kids. She had access to them and seemed that were bonding well.

Priscah was employed after 2013 elections at Kengen. This was under URP wing then. Her hubby was the PAC chair. During some meetings she would attend, especially the ones in Mombasa or out of the country.

Apart from maybe infidelity I think the biggest hit was adjusting to who you really are, an ordinary middle level employee from being a hotshot and big lady in the country.

That is what Mama Ngina and her family knew when they used Ida to convince Raila to do handshake. After that her daughter became a PS equivalent, be IDA got an EGH and other goodies. Women yearn for power and influence mire than even men.