By now, every lady should have understood that, unless he is your husband and you are one, it’s not possible to get pregnant for a man. You only get pregnant for yourself… The whole responsibility is on you. You pass through the emotions and the motions alone while he is out there enjoying the same 30 second activity that got you pregnant, with someone else…
Don’t even think you can get pregnant to keep a man… A child is not super glue… A man will get you pregnant and then leave you, to go and get married to a lady who got pregnant for someone else…
As long as he is not your husband, you are a “baby mama” and that’s never a nice term to be called by… He may give you the money, so called “child maintenance” but that’s not enough… A child is not a machine to be maintained… As we approach July this cold season, please remember not to get pregnant… Yes it’s nice to have a child, but raising a child alone, that ain’t simple… If the guy wants you pregnant, let him do the needful… Man up and always be there!!! tag all the ladies in the house wambie p2 ni panadol backfire ndio trend apan taka mic imeanguka mumeskia nugu ishi
Baby traps will work much better when our society evolves to be more like the western society, where the government is better equipped to track and pin down men to extract resources under the threat of bodily harm. But no matter what we do, women will never tolerate babies from men they do not want to get pregnant by. Whatever we do, women will still go ahead and get pregnant by the men they choose. Whatever we do.
Bars provide beer, getting drunk is the drunkards prerogative. Men provide sperm, getting pregnant is a woman’s prerogative. In the twenty first century, social environment and advances in technology make it such that it is impossible to knock up a woman who does not intend it, and also impossible for a woman to carry a pregnancy to term who does not intend it.
It is only a trap if the lady tore the condom with her finger nails or picked the used condom from the trashcan and inseminated herself with the semen in it. Kama walimangana raw hakuna trap hapo, we all did biology and know consequences of raw sex