Polite advice.

I’m willing to bet there’s someone bomoaring her a good one outside.

"You left the house for two months…" biggest mistake you did. She should be the one who should have left. Your wife knows you are needy.

That woman will not last outside there alone. You better put her in her place mapema. Otherwise it is your kids whose wellbeing will be affected. Pesa kidogo hudanganya some women sana.

Nipee namba nimwongeleshe am a marriage counselor by the way

Penye unaharibu mambo ni kukua simp as you have said. Kua kichwa ngumu pia kidogo. Ignore her, come late mara kadhaa na unamlenga. Usimuonyeshe uko na haja nayeye sana ama hiyo madharau yake inakuuma. That grants her all the power.

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Every opportunity inatumiwa kuhunt for new meat

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Yaani pia wanaume hupeana silent treatment?ignore her and her food yes yes but total silence in your own house hapana

I agree with you 100%. That is the only way to gain control. Also disagree with almost all her opinion and give a lead in ever thing

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Get a better looking woman uone vile atakuja chini. She thinks she is the best you can do so just prove her wrong

This thread aligns perfectly with ya ule kumbaff alikuwa anauliza kama awekee bibi biashara. I cant locate that thread but nakumbuka nilimwambia it is a lose-lose situation. If the business fails he burns cash. If it succeeds, bibi afure kichwa muanze kusumbuana. Sasa wewe uko na the same outcome because bibi anavuna kukuliko so amefura kichwa huwezi mshow any.

Let me educate you a little bit. Wanawake huchochana SANA. They are incapable of thinking independently. Her friends are probably asking her what she saw in a loser (wewe). Na hakuna kitu husumbua mwanamke akili kama kukuwa na boyfriend ama husband who does not inspire envy from her friends. Women want men who their friends want and respect. If her friends think that you are a loser, she will try to upgrade.

Money does not fall from heaven like manna. So huwezi increase income easily and solve the problem. My point is that you are fuked and your best option is to separate from her and work on your money. Fanya co-parenting juu mkikaa nyumba moja siku moja tutakuona kwa news ukiwa umefanya ile kitu. A man can only take distrespect from a bitch for so long.

:eek: sawa sawa mwanasheria mkuu

Tunangojea hekaya moja ya mwisho

Is she Kikuyu?

you need a hard reset something akin to shitting the bed. you need to get all parents involved without the agenda being finances, then make it about your hard headed financially liberated woman being seduced by her bosses.

Start playing with a new rule book, the refs will be the intervention meeting, don’t start simping trying to negotiate with a terrorist, don’t throw tantrums by drinking out late and other forms of acting out.

Buy KY jelly put it on the bedstand, tonight you are the sadist, the goal is to bring her back to the negotiating table, in-laws and all.

Get some wet wipes, she is going to make the calls herself while in utter disbelief sobbing every word.

Stick it in her Culo, make it a fistula crime scene.

prepare for the meeting.

saitan.

Kamba, Am a Kiuk.

It is not the norm for Kao girls to do that… But of course there are exceptions… Some, especially from Kangundo are just like Kikuyus from Kabete… In your case, you should consider letting her go… it had to end this way but cut your losses and move on… else, you will suffer forever…

And he should have made it ABSOLUTELY clear that once she walked out that door there is no coming back.

These guys need to learn how to be assertive.

Meanwhile OP what have you been doing to improve yourself careerwise, financially, education wise? Your kids and the aforementioned should be your focus.

Emotionally she might be gone or is surely but slowly doing it.

Hii upuzi wacha ibaki naughty America ama pornhub.

Nikikosana na mama pima Malaya mchafu mama @uwesmake ni yeye huwa anaeda out 2 months ananiacha nikipika busaa na omenA