Ladies kuna wanaume waovu sana huku nje. Please stop trusting men you barely know, even the ones you know forever can turn on you. Manhood nowadays is equited by how much a man or a man and his friends can victimize a woman or women. You are no longer safe with a man even in broad daylight they drug you and gangrape. Let’s be careful out here ladies. You can imagine what the family of the lady is going through right now. May God protect us from men with evil intentions. What kind of madness is this now?
can it be sacrifice ?
hapo umepoteza braincells
Even me I thought of Illuminati manenos
Isn’t that what mgtow and Red peels teach you people? How to take advantage of people?
I am reading about human cloning and how celebrities are cloned…
To many things going on…
Was it perhaps BDSM gone wrong…
Breaking a girls spinal cord and neck??
if you took your time to read into it you would find that is very far from the truth
All is fair in love and war. It’s just upto women to take their personal security seriously. Where things have reached now, there’s nobody you can trust. Predators are all over. Ukikaa mbya as a woman who is vulnerable and too weak to fight off super strong men, you will not blame anyone for the outcome.
I have no respect for people who generalize things especially on serious matters like this. Zero logic is not beautiful. Some people, both male and female, are evil. How many men’s transformers have been uprooted in places like Nyeri? Have we come here claiming how women are evil? Please have some sense even if you’ve been hurt before.
If most women were half as paranoid as I am most of these cases would not be happening. My policy is that all men are guilty until proven innocent. This girl’s policy was all men are innocent until proven guilty bcz not all men are bad and we can’t generalise. The other side is that bad people don’t come with labels so it’s a safe bet to believe that they are all dangerous and save your life incase you fall upon a bad apple.
That’s not such a bad mantra to guide you in these streets. However, as women keep their guard up it’s important to appreciate that once you accept money or gifts (read investment) from men then know you’re disadvantaged at the bargaining table. It’s not easy to say no or walk away especially for the young girls. I know it’s hard for you folks to understand this but 99% of the times a man treats you is for the cookie. Sometimes your reactions come as a surprise. Overall people are unpredictable so keep safe everyone.
You know, there’s a healthy fear, that of being cautious about people generally and staying away from suspicious people. And then there’s paranoia, that of saying I sound like a rapist, as you did yesterday–you shocked me. A traumatised person sees harm everywhere, like fearing anyone male, so that it’s hard to operate normally and be calm around people. If I hadn’t read more of your writing I would have said you are dealing with some deep seated trauma.
The Third World War is the gender war, there are villains on both sides.
Velvine must get justice. Her case is a very sad cautionary tale for young girls new to the dating mine field.
Women are naturally more generous and giving than men so they project themselves on to men. They do not expect anything when they are giving and they think men are the same way.
Either way buying someone dinner and drinks that they never solicited from you then expecting sex in return is basically turning an unsuspecting woman into a prostitute. You would do better if you straight out go to a prostitute and you agree on how much do your deed and go. Unfortunately it’s a kind of trap men set up for ladies bcz if a woman bought you lunch and then expected you to mow her lawn or repair her car bcz you ate the lunch she asked you out it would be absurd. Men just have what red peels call solipostic reasoning when it comes to women. If a woman takes you to her house you automatically expect sex but if she asked you to repair her house as an expected unspoken agreement of coming to her house you’d be like what? You were bringing me to your house to do repairs. Some serious double standards. Anyway that’s male nature they’re conditioned by society to be entitled so women need to wake up from their sleeping beauty brainwashing that starts with those fairy tales in childhood that men knights in shining armor and prince charming and beasts and frogs that turn into princes if only you could love them. Women are in a mindset of a girl on a picnic and play ground but the reality is that we are in a battle field and women are the soft targets that get hit by the artillery much of the time. It sounds grim and fatalistic but being gang raped, drugged and beaten to death, broken spinal cord and all doesn’t sound like a fairy tale ending either. You can be paranoid or you can be trusting and end up in a lodging, drugged, raped, spinal cord broken in 3 places. To me it’s a no brainer what the better option is. Awhile back the public caught a guy dumping an unconscious woman on the side of the road, what if no one saw him and she got run over by a mat like Mercy Keino, what about Tecra and the lady who got Louis Otieno a loan and then he killed her. Men aren’t playing out here, they’re going for the jugular as you the woman are a delusional Alice in wonderland looking through your rose colored glasses thinking it’s love. I’m telling you the grief women would save themselves if they woke up from this lala land of over romanticizing men and men’s true nature would be tremendous. We would have no such cases.
You were telling another man that if your wife complains about your excessive sexual demands you should ignore the complaints and go ahead and satisfy yourself anyway. What do you call that? That’s rape. We can’t sugar coat it any other way. Sex requires consent even when it’s your spouse you are dealing with.
What do suspicious men look like? From what I saw in the guy’s FB page he did not look suspicious to me. So what criteria do we use to sort out the bad guys bcz obviously they rarely look suspicious otherwise nobody would follow them.
I’m giving women sound advice that nobody tells them. Advice that can save their lives. You can’t tell who is capable of what just by looking at them because even serial killers are the most charming and harmless looking men, until they get you where they want you then you realize when it’s too late. A man can’t understand the type of danger women are exposed to. A man will walk through a dark alley and think nothing of it, a woman is even scared if a man is walking behind her in a deserted place. You don’t have the experience of being afraid of being raped on a deserted path. Even during the day. Though I hear nowadays even men get gang raped bcz well they think that being a man automatically means that you are safe, so men are now easier targets for gang rape and being drugged. I am telling you that even you as a man should fear other men bcz the rapists do not wear a sign and look anything but suspicious. I will put for you some serial killers and tell me which of them looks suspicious and why?
Ambia wanawake waache umalaya sio story mingi hapa
Ok, now I see why you thought as you did, but you got it wrong. I was commenting of trivial complaints–you’ll see I actually used the word trivialities–and saying that a man ought to ignore them–by keeping quiet to avoid an unnecessary argument. I didn’t say it’s OK to proceed–you assumed it. What you say is not trivial, but although in your eyes men are no different from devils, I consider some actions so base that I could never bring myself to force anyone, or to even suggest anyone should. But that’s not so important coz the post is not about me, I just wanted to clarify that bit. If you remember some discussions we’ve had here, I have always said rapists and molesters are beasts who should be shown no mercy.
Don’t become defensive about men coz if this happens to your daughter or sister God forbid you will be just as annoyed if not more than I am. You see my point isn’t that men are devil’s but that even the devil himself comes disguised as an angel of light. That’s what the Bible says, so my point isn’t that men are but that appearances can be deceiving and when even a very harmless looking casual date ends up in such a heinous murder, women must understand that the stakes are too high, if this girl survived she’d now be in a wheelchair and for what? Dinner and drinks? And this guy does not look like a bad guy, he doesn’t look suspish. I mean if I could put up a bill board to tell women to stop trusting people they barely know I would. Btw even the ones they know are also bad bcz stats say that most people are raped by people they know very well. Women are under siege bcz they’re refusing to realize that the world is not as safe a place for women as women think it is. This cases are so many that FIDA even sounded an alarm over the high numbers of murders of women. Old women like the woman who was found in Ngong hills, now this one, the other week the business lady. As in its becoming a weekly occurrence for a woman to be killed. So we have to create awareness that out here is no longer a very safe place for women. Women have to be careful with everyone coz they do not know who is the bad guy and who isnt.
This is numbing. It’s impossible to understand a man like that…heck, it’s even hard to call him a human being.