This year, nilikua ready to show up to any get together for friends and family. My plan was to show up and Just catch up because haujui kama it will be the last time you will see someone.
The first get to together was for former high school classmates. We had a Whatsapp group of 50 people. Only 8 showed up.
The second get to together was extended family. We had a Whatsapp group of 20 people. Only 5 showed up.
We planned a siblings trip kuenda ocha. No one showed up. I went alone.
I have planned a casual drink na mabeshte. Out of 6 planned meetings, only 2 were successful.
Nikama people stopped caring about physical meetings. Very unfortunate.
This December let me give watu the last chance but I expect disappointments.
Kila mtu ni meffi. Wacha nikae calabash na lanye. They never disappoint
Watu wakule kwao
They are not showing up juu maybe wana avoid watakuwa judged vibaya alafu pia huwa ni source ya UDAKU. Again, unapatana na msee ame kuwa successful na labda kuna mmoja ana struggle.. unani get.. people avoid such. Heri wajikalie..
Wale hu feel wako tu sawa na vile life iko hutokea. Wale huwa wana avoid kutokea ni wale wangekuwa successful wangepush watu wapatane ndio waonekane wametoboa maisha…
Its not about food elder.. kwani unatoka area gani northern parts of kenya?
Meet ups ni ya watu who are doing great in life that is uko na pesa.
Kanyaga shingo elder. Uko spot on
Wacha kimbelembele uishi maisha raha mustarehe. I long learnt to mind my business and manage my expectations when it comes to human beings. I attend meetings to listen more than speak. Mimi hata zile WhatsApp groups niko ndani I am just a mere spectator. Group inaweza kuwanformed ikakaa mpaka ikafungwa kama sijasema kitu. Kama ni contribution nawekelea Ile naweza na kutulia.
This is a chieth mentality. Seeing someone alive and kicking many people take for granted. Mimi kama Sina Doo I will still show up afadhali nikunywe maji kama Sina Doo. Atleast I try to manage to catch up with people I have known for a long time.
Keeping your life private won’t change how people think about you. People wataku judge whether you like or not. The best way forward is to just live your life bila kusumbuliwa. For example birthday yako make sure umeNunua keki. Piga picha Alafu weka Kwa status ya Whatsapp. You owe no one anything. Social media platforms ni zako tumia vile unataka. Meffi hao
I hold back simply to avoid unnecessary conflicts and a levy on my time. Of course they can think whatever they want to think about me but I will not give them an opportunity to engage me about what they think.
Brothel cleaner najua female relatives wanakuogopa usiwaulize kama watakubali 150 mfanye maneno.
Kuongea ukweli wewe pia ni peasant. 7K unalipwa ya kupea malaya tissue na condoms za sure ni kidogo sana to be taken seriously.
Mimi birrionea nikiitana, everyone shows up because for one, they know I throw good parties and secondly, they wanna remain in good graces with me juu mimi ni cartel.
Sasa wewe ukianza kuweka watu WhatsApp group ati kila mtu atoe thao who will come? Mimi I only ask people to bring their appetite and tag stray friends along.
Hawezi stop anyone from judging you. Everytime I meet someone lazima nita mshow asanti for prioritizing our meeting. Kuna so many things unaweza fanya but you choose to give me your time. Mimi lazima nita heshimu watu Wanakuweka Kwa timetable zao kama mume panga kupatana. Hao wasee ni watu wa nguvu. Very rare
Ulisema I have a sad life kumbe you were projecting 
Kwani you can’t have a casual meeting na msee kama munapiga sherehe. Alafu munareminiscing your past events and discussing the current affairs. Kama hawezi fanya such catch up I think shida ni wewe
The most likely reason for the low turnout is because its YOU who is doing the planning a.k.a a Mr. Nobody. Omoka kwanza then uite function useme umechinja mbuzi and watch people breaking their legs to show up. Pole sana @cortedivoire lakini nobody respects you including your siblings, friends, and even former schoolmates.
In all events, I am never in the planning committee Lakini people just don’t show up for the event. I will never understand why people do this
Exactly. @cortedivoire anafikiria kuna mtu atoka kibarua yake awaste siku moja to hang out na peasant wa Calabash
The main reason nobody showed up is because HE planned the meetings. Ingekuwa a successful chap turnout ingekuwa juu sana. Na nikiambia @cortedivoire haja ya lifestyle marketing ananiona mjinga. Now nobody respects him.
Meffi wewe. Am never in the planning committee. But the trend is worrying. Since there is nothing I can do about it. I will still show up to catch up on people who come alafu baadaye niende calabash nidinye lanye
Watu wakona changamoto zao tu personal elder… unapata kuna msee anasumbuka na madeni, mwingine food mwingine shelter… mwingine ni mamboza kinyumbani.. na unajua sisi majamaa huwa hatufungui roho kwa urahisi so msee anaweza jinyamazie.. hebu icheki ivo utaona pia hawana makosa
Vile nime sema it is a very worrying trend. People don’t want to meet you when you are alive. Kama haujanotice. Wewe uko na shida