Walithamburi thadara zako za south africa:D
May be his behaviour is constant to even other neighbours ni vile you don’t interract with them to know that side of him.Kuna mmoja hapo kwetu ,nikisikia amesalimia watchie kama ni usiku na zima stima.He goes round asking watu mmeshindaje in a very loud tone.
Na juice yangu ya delmbote mbassion njuice litre moja.
Ghasia!
Talk to the person and tell him/her you don’t appreciate unannounced visits. Just because most people like visitors doesn’t mean everyone’s gotta like them. It’s your house, your rules.
denis if you know he is the buroti mdomo big why did you open your door?
Not just introverts. I am an extrovert to a great extent lakini pls respect my space…do not come unannounced. Truthfully speaking it is an invasion of privacy. This person visiting is bored and needs to while away the hrs kwangu and courtesy of our tradition, we have to provide some food and drink to the mgeni. Nein Nein Nein.
Unless it is an emergency or you are my close relative niambie you are coming to see me…
the whole day?you are very selfish for real and you cant dispute that…
you want to watch t.v alone,eat all the food and juice alone,use your seat alone tf?share
Kama hao akibisha unasimama kwa mlango na sura ngumu, akitaka kuingia unafinya mlango kabisa space ibaki kidogo na unamuuliza direct 'Unatakaje". Kama anatumia akili atajua hatakikani.
Ever watched ‘Martin’? Brother Man used to do that to Martin Lawrence
Most of these homes are sometimes one visitor away from slaps and kicks ndio heshima idumu. Wageni help a lot. Even when I was little, hungechapwa mgeni kama bado yuko. Every little help counts
I don’t mind being thought selfish if it gives me peace :D:D
true, mtu hupiga simu ukiwa nje ya gate unawashow uko area, they either say they are not available ama wanakuambia ingia tu
problem is with you and not them, I mean even saying hi to you is a problem???
I am much happier that way. I also do not tembelea others unnanounced.
Wengine hata najua kufungua gate zao na pale chini. Wanastukia Niko kwa mlango.:D:D:D Kwa wale wanaishi plot 10, hao hustuka Niko ndani ya nyumba. Kama gate ya plot imefungwa, naingia na neighbour akitoka dukani.
If someone were to call me and say they will come visit in two weeks time…chances are that it will not happen…i prefer not getting any notice at all…
I prefer a heads up hata ikiwa one is telling me they will pass by the next day tutapanga, that is fine. It shows some courtesy. But knock knock knock bila notice…naaaah.
First things first ulikamua ule singo matha mwenye mtoto wake kipiii hubang mlango yako loudly mpaka unaskia kumshikanisha vibare?
On a serious note people are missing the point here, if you are married and with kids then such strict regulations are somehow loosened since family breaks many barriers and community kind of living sets in. However for a young single person the diggz is a private space where you are most comfortable to do whatever it is you do like shit/bath while the bathroom door is open,eat left overs,want on the couch,browse porn etc without looking over your shoulder. It’s a space where you treat yourself to life’s little pleasures without feeling guilty. In the apartment I live the only person who knock on my door unannounced ni msee wa trash akitaka payment only him! Na most of the time yeye hubahatisha Kama Niko ndani. Jirani across si husalamiana kwa corridor. You can be the most social person but your house is your private Chambers. Am known to lock myself in the house on Friday Evening and going out on Monday morning and I don’t consider myself an introvert! If it’s interaction I do people watching on the balcony! Finally categorize people in groups I have three ie workmates , interactions nao no kazini or bar, Family and here only my bro has the keys to my place our old folks ni wale mnawatembelea sio the other way round so if am pissed I just keep off them for awhile final category ni my wimin hao appointment ni lazima na keys wanazionea Amazon prime sio hata Netflix!
Utasota tuu urudi chini. Kuna wengi walikutangulia. In a poor country with no social or welfare programs, where life savings can be wiped out by a crooked CEO and where majority are a payslip away from poverty, ni upuzi wa hali ya juu kusema eti watu wabook appointment kuja kwako. Hivo ndivyo utapiga your big empty head kwa bafu ukufe na hakuna mtu atajua. Siku mtu atakufa kwa nyumba yako, friends, neighbours and relatives watachanga through paybill na uwachwe ukipambana na hali yako.
Well done Einstein! From what I wrote you concluded am well off! Someone give this man a Nobel! …am just an average nairobian and diggz can mean a posh place in Karen or a single room in mukuru …key point it doesn’t matter privacy is privacy but for someone who goes looking for keys under friends house or waiting for neighbors to open door this point is lost on you no matter how hard I try to drive it!