My little brother who’s 10years old has been asking questions and making comments here and there…
Now, I started paying attention when he changed the channel when the song ‘short and sweet’ was playing…
Bro: Gee mbona unaskiza tabia mbaya???
I was curious and so I asked him, ‘tabia mbaya iko wapi hapo??’
Bro: kwani huskii?? Hapo ulipo kamata nafeel so sweet.
Gee: kwani ni wapi anakamatwa??
Bro: pointed to his crotch
Honestly I was shocked and lost for words
Second scenario. While the advert ya condom was playing. He asked what they were for… Second time I was caught off guard.
Third scenario. Yesterday… He asked, if having sex as adults is a sin juu having it as kids is wrong.
Question. How do you answer such questions to minors in a way that they can understand??
Huyo anakupima. Most likely ashapita na hse hlp. Usijali. Those are the early stages of a fisi in the making. Piga raundi urudi nxt year na update. Atakuwa unakupima na za, “threesome ni nini?”
Lakini why are kids so curious…?? I’ll never forget when my boobs started popping and my little sister went to tell my dad… I’ll never forget her words, ‘daddy, Gee ameanza kumea matiti’… I’ve never been embarrassed all my life.
make it simple like
hapo kwa short n sweet ungesema is more of spiritual than physical anakamata heart ndiyo unafeel sweet.(sijui song yote)
kwa condoms its a device used by couples so that they dont get babies,like we use umbrellas so that we dont get wet
sex is for married couples only …emphasize the word married
make it simple without being vulgar,ukilemewa sana mwambie aulize mum ama dad :D:D
Apa hakuna kuepeka…puberty is a bitch tell him the truth otherwise he is going to find it from somewhere.
The onset of puberty varies among individuals. Puberty usually occurs in girls between the ages of 10 and 14, while in boys it generally occurs later, between the ages of 12 and16. In some African-American girls, puberty begins earlier, at about age 9, meaning that puberty occurs from ages 9 to 14.