Society has made it seem like it’s not the manly
thing to do to break down, to feel pain, to have
emotions. And because of this, so many men
both young and old, go through so much pain and
suffer in silence because they cannot tell anyone
that they are struggling, for fear of being judged
by society for not being man enough. The end
result of all this is how most of us then try to
numb this pain and deal with our inner struggles
by drinking ourselves into oblivion, @uwesmake , seeking
meaningless sexual encounters and doing
anything to just take a break from reality, @culture , It’s
time we become real with ourselves, and deal
with whatever pain or struggles we may be
facing, and be there for one another as brothers
and Fathers.
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This is so true …I lost a friend jst because he could not speak out
its important to speak up.A time bomb is the worst ever bomb i know.
ata hizi ni mbaya
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zinaitwa barrel bombs.
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seems you’ve not encountered an f-bomb
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Society does not like weak men. Men are not supposed to show any sign of weakness. Any hint of weakness in you and you are labeled a sissy. Every dick bearer is supposed to be macho. That’s how it’s being since the times of zinjathropus africanus and it will continue being so. The animal kingdom is not kind to weak beings. It’s a survival for the fittest and strongest, where weaklings are not allowed to breed and spread their inferior genes. is that not how natural selection works?
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Actually you are wrong…a man should open up and deal!, opening up and doing nothing is where the weakness comes in
If only he could use the same ingenuity to uplift his living conditions. Hiyo nyumba ni mbaya kuliko pigsty ya yule jamaa mwingine tunajua. Na sijataja mtu.
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