With the much hate among talkers against single mothers, I set out to find out where the truth really lies.
I’ve dated two three of them and I think that gives me authority to pen my two pesos on the issue:
Single mums are lovable, they are human and they have feelings, so like everyone else, they too deserve some loving.
Single moms dont have much financial baggage, so they are not hard on the pocket/wallet. The occasional few thousands she may ask for is nothing compared to what some of us spend on college bimbos and other women.
Single mums are mature. They are therefore much better than college bimbos, and other young ladies who cant think beyond booze, chicken and chips.
Single mums hawasumbui, they really know what they want, so if a single mum gets a man she likes and respects, she’ll treat him like a king.
CONCLUSION:
Wenye wanaongea mbaya about single mums, and hating on them wawache kuwa biased. How a lady turns out depends on her personality and principles, and not on whether she has a kid or not.
To the single mothers in the house, keep your heads up and dont let some of these keyboard warriors bring you down.
Hehe dude…single mums are the most devious, most patient, most conniving people around. Unless the baby daddy passed on, kuna shida kubwa sana mahali hapo…
I have a lot of examples lakini sina energy ya kuziweka hapa
Mm niliwacha mshe na mtoi akuwe single mom juu alinitrap…mjunia sahii ni 7yrs…yuko kenya. Dame alipopata ball hakunishow infact alicheza chini. Wakati ball imefika Mwezi kaa nne ndo I gt alerted. At first niliruka…waa mtoi kuzaliwa ni copy ryt ya Jay. Nilicheza chini Ju hio tym nilikuwa naomdOka kenya kuenda majuu. Nikiwa majuuNajua naskia mresh anapanulia waxee her fathers age. Sai kiko na watoi tungwine…wawili btw chic is still fly lakini jay apana tambua
this bitch gave birth to my daughter and dumped her on me and left her to me to raise her alone. byatch disappeared akaenda MIA never heard from her again… AM A FUCKING SINGLE DAD IMAGINE…hekaya ntaweka nikipata time… atembeze hizo MGUU STOVE hapa some day ati she wanna see her daughter… sweep na ma slap akiwa chini… apana tambua
First and foremost, I don’t think bearing a child suddenly makes one a better lover. A better wife? Maybe. However, single mom’s require love. They’re human after all. Offer them love and you’ll receive plentiful in return. If you make a conscious decision to love (and probably marry) a single mom then your motives shuld be pure. Don’t do it because you feel like you’re ‘saving’ her from society’s judgemental eyes. In fact, judge her suitability as a mate/partner like she’s never seen the inside of a maternity ward. Afterwards, rate your preparedness to raise a child you haven’t sired. If those two conditions check out, then go ahead and be with her.
Mapenzi hayana side-mirror.