I am a bit bewildered by how the today universe creatures have anointed themselves to be semi-gods… When you marry Bob, or may be you have a sponsor, or you are in this holy than thou relationship with a 500 grams tin of arimis people will talk Ill of you… That’s where my problem crops in.
Allow me to talk about sponsors today and then tomorrow perhaps I will expound on arimis relationship. I have never had a problem with our pretty women going for the so called sponsors… Some say it’s gold digging or lazy butts who want quick money. But no one takes time to think why?
Women have needs, and women live in a competitive soggy world, that’s is an inbuilt and irrebuttable character. It’s we men who have created that notion in their minds, that a woman has to look good to fit in today’s men’s menu… She has to have that tasty look to enjoy the ambience of this society.
Unlike us men who can survive on a 5, 000 Bob stretch budget a month, a woman needs an approximate of 30k to maintain her image and stature. I am talking of salon money, make up, sanitary, pedicure, manicure, a handbag, nice shoes, dress etc… And women fashion updates itself daily like an Antivirus software… A man can wear a savco khaki dating back to 1995 with moccasins and no one will give a huhaaa about it.
Now today’s average man, I included, we have become lamenting hornbills when a woman claims to look good on our budget. I understand the economic constraints and lifestyle has become pricy… We want the best and prettiest in the market but we are not willing to meet the cost. In layman language we want an iPhone but when the screen cracks we are bargaining to replace it with a techno screen. Pure mental approach of a street conman.
My all time take is that we should not namecall our sisters when they go sponsor way, we are the power driving them towards that direction… There is no way a bebe will come to chase cockroaches in your bedsitter while her peers are pressing a Chrysler gas pedal with their Italian heels… Nuh everything good has a price… If she has taken care of herself when you sneak in her life it’s your business to maintain that flamboyance or make it better.
And you bebes of sponsors I hope you have mastered all the by- laws of sponsorship and consequences and signed an affidavit agreeing on the contents . Whatever makes you happy kindly go for it coz the world will never stop noise making as long as you are breathing… Sasa watu wa mawe tupeni… Those who disagree go argue with babu owino…
I remain # kiariewandumberi
it is a lifestyro just like any other frowned upon by “linear/straight” others
that is the only line i’ve agreed with…
but doesn’t mean she has to buy every version (especially if she cannot afford it); that is called materialism.
there is also the small matter of the (in)dignity of what you do to get what you desire…
Only broke men complain of gold diggers whatever that means, rich men are okay because it plays in their favor
Humor me; what is the use of maintaining one woman who is not your wife when you can simply pick a beautiful one at the club and have your way with her at your man cave? Repeat the process ad infinitum, with different women ranging from college girls to married women? I would rather be pampering my wife and spending a few thousands on one night stands than budget for a side dish who has many other boyfriends.
“harsh-a-tag” kula slice zako uondokee jeshi la team mafisi.
nuthn justifies gold diggin… these ladies are just roadside whores in denial…
monogamy ruined our social balance…
How does this apply to an already married woman. Why marry when not ready only to go get some from another dude or fossil for that matter jus because he is loaded. Huo ni ukasumba wa the highest order.
sema @trish you’ve been MIA