hapo Hakuna shida, mlienda na wakapatiana consent Kwa board?
No walikubali tu wakapewa chao
No walikubali tu wakapewa chao
title deed umepata?
Yah, did a search on Feb and was OK with my names
hapo uko safe
So nothing to worry about
At times we despise how our ancestors did things but there is some wisdom and deep science behind our customs.
After initiation you build your own house never to return to your parents.
After marriage you are allocated cattle and maybe land to till. The homes are also arranged in a certain order by the clan elders or your dad when he showed you where to build.
Division of labour was there. Men had their tasks and so did women.
Alcohol and tobacco was only allowed after reaching certain age e.g. junior elders.
Men were respected according to hardworking and wealth acquired genuinely.
Some fellows could not talk in meetings e.g. unmarried etc.
Our parents generation many left the rural areas for Nairobi never to return to their folks home permanently but only to visit. They bought land and created own homes as simple as they may have been.
Nowadays 40 year old is still at parents and no work only eating and drinking.
Some men even escape from matrimonial homes to seek refuge at parents home so as to avoid the grind of providing when times are hard.
We need a serious men’s conference
No we do not, Fredrick Douglas said it is easier to build strong children than repair broken men.
Go home gentlemen and whip those little shits when they step out of line, in life you can either choose self discipline or forced discipline.
Either way itaingia tu