I have observed several friends and even relatives whose parents and kin labour on their behalf so that they have a better future. However as soon as lady luck smiles on the ninjas, ladies follow in quick succession and the once close and cordial relationship becomes distant. I know of a friend who went as far as buying a sofa set worth 120k for his mother in-law yet his own biological mother was rewarded with the ninjas old pair of sofa set when he was upgrading. I felt it was the highest form of betrayal since it was her mother who struggled single handedly to see him through the 8-4-4 system. Worse is of sons who upon getting married forge bad blood between them and their closest kith and kin thus being of help to their in-laws while their parents and siblings requiring less languish in poverty. Others who marry from far flung communities are known to settle among their in-laws.
The only time these prodigals sons come home are either in a casket or when faced with misfortunes. My question is, Is it the wives who turn these men from their families or the ninjas nature?
Iam always of the idea that a slices provider should not fool one into deserting his siblings or worse still parents since men have been known to be swindled, cheated or even killed by these P providers while your parents can’t. I can disagree with everyone else but not a parent who gave her everything for my welfare.
Are you married?
If Yes, how is your experience?
If No, Shut up and await your turn and then you can pass your opinion
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Yes am married with a kid. I know expenses tend to fluctuate once one is married but then again you don’t disown your family and invest in your in-laws.
It defeats logic,i thought is witchcraft unfortunately i don’t believe in witchcraft,Can an Expert in this village explain briefly
@introvert unaitwa.
To women a relationship is a man’s commitment to spend on her. A good and successful relationship is that which provides her with all the monies she needs. In olden days this could only be tamed by polygamy but nowdays it is for the man to use the upper head not the lower one. Let your woman know who is the boss.
if you look keenly like I have, you’ll realise somehow women tend to take care of their parents more than us men do. I’m not saying men don’t but look closely at a family that has grown up children and most likely, youll notice it’s the girls that tend to take more care of the old folks, especially the dad. the few men on the other hand tend to look after their mums more. women were created smarter than us men nomatter how much we deny, thats why she will sway you to tend to her folks more than yours. if you’re the sort of man who cannot realise that, then you’re sorted. personally, I took this route. we exchanged parents. she takes care of mine and I hers and it’s done equally. no one does anything behind anothers back and our parents have learned to deal directly with their sponsor, unless it’s issues of parents to siblings. don’t ever think you can train your wife this things wen you’re deep into marriage, mti ukunje ungali mbichi. just my two cents.
this thing depends on the relationship between child and parent from the begining so it can’t be generalized… Alafu if ur observation is accurate, why do we hear wives complaining about the husbands being mamas boys, always inviting the mothers home, always consulting with the mothers… What u described there is just the honey-moon phase which is necessary for bonding and doesn’t last long. As for fathers, if they never bonded with the sons from an early age they should know the consequences. And it should be a lesson to the new fathers; undermine the importance of bonding with kids and u’ll be neglected later.
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Weka picha!
Kama sio ni hekaya!
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a comprehensive master plan for a start,More should be availed to the villagers
i said earlier Ktalk is NOT an English class,Boss you can tutor English lessons to your neighboring slum school
Kama mwanamke alimshinda Mungu we binadamu ndo unafikiri utamweza. Ladies are the reason i dont take a nap and walk around naked in an exclusive garden full of grapes wines apples:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad: All ladies should be taken to proxima b and leave us men alone:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:
So many reasons unaeza pata wazazi who are toxic so if inlaws are welcoming for sure they will be spoilt.
If I were married I’m sure kwenda nyumbani kwetu ingekuwa nadra sana.
Interesting . Will try this
OSUNGU iko chini kidogo but, that sounds like a good strategy!
MBONA?
monk naonaga utakukuja kuwa fisi mwingine HATAR bin BALAA!!.. najua unangoja tu pesa iingiane vizuri
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you must be an incorrigible fool if you honestly believe that shit!