..... Of marriage proposal (a little help)

Guys, how do I turn down a marriage proposal in a polite way??

I used to love this guy, let’s call him Alex. So we have been in a relationship for almost four years and it has been an on /off kind of relationship. So the guy seems committed to the relationship for a few months alafu tunaacha Kuongeleshana for one or two months and the trend repeats itself.
I take my relationships very seriously but I don’t want to accept his marriage proposal. How do I say no in a polite way juu enyewe I can’t marry him with these kind of issues … He’s been so dedicated lately and seems he’s serious about settling down.
I understand marriage is a lifetime decision and I wouldn’t want to have an awful marriage especially when the babies come.

Tell him like it is, you’re not ready, kari gani…

Holy crap!!! Someone will soon be on the suicide watch list.

Zima simu na uhame mtaa.

Fanya venye Faith Nerea Lukose (pale kwa zukabaga) alifanya…
else mwambie NO.
[SIZE=3]anyways I always suspect u to be a blue handle masquerading as a pinkie[/SIZE]

Simply say NO, then proceed to justify why.

Ngombe

No matter how polite you will sound it will narrow down to No finally . The earlier the better ." I’m not ready right now" mwache a deal with the aftermaths

Tell him “Am not Boarding” insert miguna accent

Who cares what your suspicions are about??

I was talking about him.
How old is he?

He’s turning 30 Dec

Okay… So it doesn’t matter how I say it or justify my Answer??

Aaaiiihhh cwes hama and anajua hadi babangu. Besides why would I do that??

If he truly loves you he will wait till you are ready. So just tell him how you feel am sure he will understand.Maybe he will be a little disappointed because I guess it takes a lot of courage to propose but being honest with him is equally important

I don’t think she wants to marry him so she will never be ready, basically she wants to end the relationship.

Vile @Mundu Mulosi Said…enda underground…hama mtaa… u never know psychos…

How do u know he will propose? coz if he had, u’d have rejected ama this is a realtime post?

if its on and off… DO NOT accept the proposal… Just say u need time to gauge his seriousness
[SIZE=3]ps. The earlier and more straight forward, the better…weka a blank face show NO emotion at all. Tafta those sour sweets and keep them under ur tongue as u speak…ur face will be the right one.[/SIZE]

Hehehe kunguru imekataa kufugika…
Mwambie tu atafute mwingine

He already has… I told him I’ll think about it

Na hiyo si ni kama tu kusema NO? If he is smart he should be working on his exit strategy.