cheating is overrated… think of your sex organs as muscles same as you would with your limbs and your life will be easy that way…BS about emotion and shit??? that’s just an illusion to delude you into thinking that you need to watch and control your fellow humans… what are emotions??? really!!!
It is true that divorce laws shaft men, mostly because it is women who marry up. Kenya nilisoma ni based on contribution, but we all know it takes one feminist judge to interpret " contribution" differently. “…upon divorce, spouses share property on the basis of the contributions they make in its acquisition.”
Marriage is an extractive institution for men. It takes more than it gives and satisfaction will only come at 60 IF and I repeat IF your kids turn out right.
Hapo ndio utakua unafeel your investment was worth it.
Vile dunia iko, I can’t promise you that in your 6th decade when you retire. Chances are one of your kids will either be a druggie @Bingwa Scrotum, a homosexual like @Kimakia, a thief like @maasai 101 or an underachiever like @T.Vercetti
Really… Ile siku utaletewa luwere na bibi yako akiwa ameambukizwa na Kevo wa Gym ndo utajua sex organs are muscles… Halafu miaka mbili after atakua na watoto wanakaa Bryo wa bodaboda na wote itabidi uwaprovidie… Ukidivorce vitu zinagawa 50 percent…
The institution of marriage is to be guarded. Bibi akigawa nje ngoa yeye meno… But kama unataka kuoa malaya ni sawa hakuna mtu anakuulizsa…
Being deluded is thinking you can stop someone (man/woman: for it must be both way) who’s willing to cheat from doing so. And i don’t believe cheating is enough warrant to abandon your parental responsibility. Just as you would overlook other vices on your partner so should sex outside your ‘union’. Ask your self? why is sex soo sacred if not out of ‘selfish’ and narrow way of objectifying yourself. In summary marriage != sex
“Silipi dowry… Bibi ni anipee watoto wawili ama watatu halafu akifikisha miaka 40 namruhusu akue malaya… Before that akinicheza narusha nje nabaki na watoto or I let her stay but never have sex with her again. Na ntakua natombana nje bt never at home…”
Everyone is differnt. Some people take cheating lightly, others don’t.
Kenyan men regurgitating talking points from Western characters on the internet. Have you even checked to see if any of those points apply to Kenya? Our country is still a full fledged patriarchy, if you came out from your isolation in your bed sitter, you would realize this
The first three points apply in Kenya. Priority is always given to the mother in most custody battles and men will be compelled to pay child support. Men are absolutely screwed in divorce matters. The only