New definition of rape: kumwaga ndani ni hatia

[AllOfYou]

Nimepata hii pale whatsapp…

MEANING OF RAPE EXTENDED IN UK: PERMISSION TO HAVE SEX IS NOT PERMISSION TO EJACULATE
A woman who agreed to sex might still be the victim of rape, the High Court has ruled.
The most senior judge in England and Wales and two other judges said there was consensual penetration, but the man behaved aggressively and ignored the woman’s demand that he not ejaculate.
The woman had challenged a decision not to prosecute the man for rape and sexual assault.
The judges have ordered prosecutors to review their decision.
Prosecutors had decided not to charge him as it would be impossible to prove that the man’s decision was not ‘spontaneous’ and ‘made at the point of ejaculation.’

Control over her
Handing down a written ruling, the three judges said the man had been controlling and aggressive during sex.
On the specific incident in question the woman consented on the clear understanding that the man would not ejaculate within her vagina.
The ruling said: She believed that he intended and agreed to withdraw before ejaculation. (He) knew and understood that this was the only basis on which she was prepared to have sexual intercourse with him.
“In short, there is evidence that he deliberately ignored the basis of her consent to penetration as a manifestation of his control over her.”
Shortly after penetration, and without giving the woman any chance to object the man had said he would be coming inside her and had added, I’ll do it if I want!

Definition of rape

Judges were told that the man had ‘ejaculated before she could say or do anything about it,’ and she had become pregnant.
Lord Judge, Lord Chief Justice of England and Wales, Mr Justice Fulford and Mr Justice Sweeney at a High Court hearing in London, added: “She was deprived of choice relating to the crucial feature on which her original consent to sexual intercourse was based.
Accordingly her consent was negated.
Contrary to her wishes, and knowing that she would not have consented, and did not consent to penetration or the continuation of penetration if she had any inkling of his intention, he deliberately ejaculated within her vagina.
In law, this combination of circumstances falls within the statutory definition of rape.”

[The_Virus]

You lost me at whatsapp

[junkie]

Next time bitch better insist on a condom

[daddy_kool]

Aii whats the need to hump endlessly if not tirelessly and not have the electrifying joys of KN even if it’s inside the damn rubber…sadness of coitus!

[Ice_Cube]

watu wa summary poleni

http://www.idiva.com/news-work-life/aspen-matis-writes-about-why-she-invited-her-rapist-to-spend-the-night-with-her/1510169

[SIZE=6]She asked her rapist to spend a night with her. Here’s why![/SIZE]

What kind of trauma would lead a woman to ask her rapist to spend the night with her after getting raped? Aspen Matis, now 25, did just that when she was raped on the second night of her college. “Afterward I asked him if he wanted to stay. To sleep over. Because I desperately wanted to think I had wanted this, to feel that everything was fine,” she wrote in a New York Times article.

Years after the incident, while writing the New York Times piece, she remembered that and hesitated over including that one bit of information.

“I feared that people would say, ‘She wanted him to stay-how could this be rape?’” In the end, Matis decided to include the detail because “it was true, it was part of the experience, and it showed the complexity of my reaction honestly,” she said in an interview with Broadly.

In the article, she outlined her subsequent reactions to her rape - she dropped out of college after they not only failed to punish her rapist, they even relocated him to her dorm. She then decided to hike from Mexico to Canada alone in the hope of overcoming her trauma-and that eventually led to a book deal. It’s been six years since the assault; Matis is now 25, and her memoir, Girl in the Woods, came out recently to widespread critical acclaim.

But since the release of the NYT article and her book, Matis has heard from hundreds of girls who, like her, also asked their rapists to stay; some of these girls wrote their rapists poems and love songs. “Turns out that it’s actually an incredibly common reaction to want the boy who raped you to treat you well after, as if you could retroactively correct it,” she says.

“Because to call a rape a rape-to name it what it is-is to acknowledge that something terrible has happened, that your life is forever changed, and that’s a really terrifying thing to do. It makes the most sense in the aftermath of a trauma to try to carry on as if it never happened, as if you could-and then you realise that you can’t.”

http://mediaresources.idiva.com/media/content/2015/Oct/aspen-matis-girl-in-the-woo.jpg

Another woman who came out with her own experiences agrees with what Matis has to say. Helen Alison’s attacker was her own boyfriend, who raped and forced himself on her repeatedly. “For so long I didn’t think what had happened to me was sexual violence, because of the circumstances,” she told news.com.au.

“He would often cry when I said ‘no’, and shout at me. If I didn’t give in after this he would force himself onto me.”

She said there was even a running joke between her ex-boyfriend and the pair’s mutual friends that he “would literally have to pull my trousers off to get anywhere with me, I was that ‘not up for it’.”

Sydney-based psychotherapist, Jackie Nugara, who specialises in complex trauma and PTSD, said in an interview with the Courier Mail that Matis’ initial reaction is common and many women go through the same thing.

“Finding ways to distance from trauma is really common. With rape, often victims can go into shock. People deal with trauma in different ways. The stories that I hear, I wouldn’t say that it’s unreasonable.”

However, Matis’s real purpose in writing the memoir, according to her, was to raise US$1 million for RAINN, the Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network.

[mache]

that bitch has issues, mara ingiza nusu mara usimwage nkt, the dude screwed the hell outta her!

[uwesmake]

dryfry chaiman disapproves of this

[kalel]

Upuss of the highest order

[Ruffneck]

from same country where a bugler sued a guy for using excessive force on him when he was caught trying to steal stuff in the dead of the night…

[WuTang]

Europe and North America are literally pussy whipped.

[Slartibartfast]

@Ice_Cube

watu wa summary poleni

http://www.idiva.com/news-work-life/aspen-matis-writes-about-why-she-invited-her-rapist-to-spend-the-night-with-her/1510169

[SIZE=6]She asked her rapist to spend a night with her. Here’s why![/SIZE]

What kind of trauma would lead a woman to ask her rapist to spend the night with her after getting raped? Aspen Matis, now 25, did just that when she was raped on the second night of her college. “Afterward I asked him if he wanted to stay. To sleep over. Because I desperately wanted to think I had wanted this, to feel that everything was fine,” she wrote in a New York Times article.

Years after the incident, while writing the New York Times piece, she remembered that and hesitated over including that one bit of information.

“I feared that people would say, ‘She wanted him to stay-how could this be rape?’” In the end, Matis decided to include the detail because “it was true, it was part of the experience, and it showed the complexity of my reaction honestly,” she said in an interview with Broadly.

In the article, she outlined her subsequent reactions to her rape - she dropped out of college after they not only failed to punish her rapist, they even relocated him to her dorm. She then decided to hike from Mexico to Canada alone in the hope of overcoming her trauma-and that eventually led to a book deal. It’s been six years since the assault; Matis is now 25, and her memoir, Girl in the Woods, came out recently to widespread critical acclaim.

But since the release of the NYT article and her book, Matis has heard from hundreds of girls who, like her, also asked their rapists to stay; some of these girls wrote their rapists poems and love songs. “Turns out that it’s actually an incredibly common reaction to want the boy who raped you to treat you well after, as if you could retroactively correct it,” she says.

“Because to call a rape a rape-to name it what it is-is to acknowledge that something terrible has happened, that your life is forever changed, and that’s a really terrifying thing to do. It makes the most sense in the aftermath of a trauma to try to carry on as if it never happened, as if you could-and then you realise that you can’t.”

http://mediaresources.idiva.com/media/content/2015/Oct/aspen-matis-girl-in-the-woo.jpg

Another woman who came out with her own experiences agrees with what Matis has to say. Helen Alison’s attacker was her own boyfriend, who raped and forced himself on her repeatedly. “For so long I didn’t think what had happened to me was sexual violence, because of the circumstances,” she told news.com.au.

“He would often cry when I said ‘no’, and shout at me. If I didn’t give in after this he would force himself onto me.”

She said there was even a running joke between her ex-boyfriend and the pair’s mutual friends that he “would literally have to pull my trousers off to get anywhere with me, I was that ‘not up for it’.”

Sydney-based psychotherapist, Jackie Nugara, who specialises in complex trauma and PTSD, said in an interview with the Courier Mail that Matis’ initial reaction is common and many women go through the same thing.

“Finding ways to distance from trauma is really common. With rape, often victims can go into shock. People deal with trauma in different ways. The stories that I hear, I wouldn’t say that it’s unreasonable.”

However, Matis’s real purpose in writing the memoir, according to her, was to raise US$1 million for RAINN, the Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network.

Psychopathic bi.tch milking the “rape culture”. Why do people believe everything that women say about rape?

[Ice_Cube]

@Slartibartfast

Psychopathic bi.tch milking the “rape culture”. Why do people believe everything that women say about rape?

coz its not politically correct to have doubts

[duskidauni]

Phwackin boolchit