And it gets exponentially fatalistic if you met him in church. You will end up leaving church and or becoming an atheist. You are not there to rehabilitate people who failed in marriage. That’s God’s job. Alafu divorcee with 3 kids at 33?Hell NO. You are not there to clean up people’s messes and failures.
Disclaimer :I’m not hating on divorcees, single people also have failed relationships but at least they have the good sense not to make astronomical promises in front of God ati until death do you part, to someone they’re not ready to take shit from for the rest of their lives bcz basically that’s what marriage entails tolerating a mountain of nonsense.