I am a married man, my wife works in a different country. In my time of loneliness in 2017, I met this single mum of one baby girl.
We hit it off well, initially, we were using cds but later cd tukaweka kando ikawa ni pull-out game. I failed terribly in my first attempt akapata ball.
She was ready to have a kid with me but I wasn’t so I persuaded her to abot which she did (I paid the aboshen money). After the aboshen, I grew cold towards her and we separated for months.
While we were separated, yeye na baby daddy wakarudiana (in 2017 mwisho) and she got pagged naye. The lady akajitoa akiwa na ball from huyu baby daddy.
In 2018, we met in the mall na katika harakati za ku catch up we rekindled our feelings. This time hakukuwa na story za pull-out, I didn’t know kuwa she was pregnant but kuna vile hiyo kuma ilikuwa na utamu ajabu.
Alipogundua nitajua she’s pregnant she went cold on me, only later (5 months into her pregnancy) to explain everything via text…alipokaribia kuzaa wakarudiana na baby daddy kama mke na mume so we cut communication.
In 2019, she sents me a text kuwa baby daddy hataki stori zake kwa bed, so we hooked up again (behind her hubby’s back) but this time ilikuwa cd lazima. After 3 encounters, cd ikaburst and the lady 2 weeks later claimed to be pregnant…ati ni yangu coz baby daddy rarely touches her.
She was living with the baby daddy kama husband and wife so again aboshen was safer for her, I paid for the cost…tukanyamaziana tena until she separated with baby daddy due to his cheating ways (was what she claimed).
We hooked up again, but this time akadungwa injection ya family planning so ni dry fry all the time. Hizo injections zikaanza kuwa na serious side effects kwake so we resolved that she uses pills. Nilikula hiyo 2019 vi proper sana into 2020 without issues (at this point in 2020 I started paying her rent and upkeep due to covid effects).
Then came end Feb 2021, nikaikula dry fry after 2 weeks tena ikasema ikona mimba. I persuaded her to abot to which alikubali shingo upande (I paid aboshen cost, that was on 20 March).
Tukaamua abadilishe contraceptives and last month tukarudia dry fry tena and the last time kuidry fry was on 25th April. Sasa leo manze ameniambia akona ball na hataki kuitoa.
Mind you akona two kids sasa, not in talking terms with baby daddy and she wants to keep my kid and amulee peke yake (so 3 kids in total, and she is struggling financially).
Swali ni hii ni reverse psychology ndio nilipie tena aboshen, which I now suspect could be non-existent, ama she is genuine akona ball? Ninacheswa? How do I handle this whole situation?
Sitaki juniour saa hii coz nikona wife.
P.S. it will be the fourth if she accepts
a proper simp this one!