[MEDIA=facebook]id=3107729405924201;type=video;user=mufea[/MEDIA]
@Mimi Huwa Namwaga Ndanii akiona hii video atalala na mask leo 
:D:D:D:D:D:D Nakunywa sanitizer sasa ata
Ako wapi @Kodiaga nae ajipump na ventilators :D:D:D:D:D
Huyo mwanaume ndiye mjinga. Someone once gave a very good analogy here about men being like tractors. You build TWO ROADS - yako na ya familia. Ukimaliza kulea kazi yako kwisha. Woe unto you if you expect anyone to give a crap about you after retirement. As a man, never count on anyone. Not your kids, not your wife, not your siblings. Count on your assets.
Link: https://www.kenyatalk.com/index.php?threads/being-a-father-is-a-thankless-job.112962/
:D:D:D
Hii ndio swali huwa nauliza. Kama kulea bibi na watoto issa thankless job, why do men do it? Why not just live your life as a childless bachelor kama mimi na wenzangu wenye hulka kama zangu bila kelele mingi if at the end of the day u gonna end up solo?
Because you can have kids and still secure your bag. Why not get the best of both worlds? The trick is knowing what to expect and acting accordingly before that time comes. Example, usiende kusomesha mtoto Hillcrest wakati hujajenga hoteli yako/rentals zako etc like most middle class wannabes do. That is the moral of the story here. Sio ati usipate watoto. You have to build two roads simultaneously. Most men make that mistake and build one very good road, the one they will be chased from after completing.
Its only by instinct that u will want the best for your kids. I think its foolish to give your kids a substandard life ndio ukule hio pesa uzeeni. Hio ni upuuzi, u are better off not siring any.
You have a scarcity mindset. You can provide a good life for your kids and secure your future at the same time. The two are not mutually exclusive. You do not have to choose. The problem most men have is focusing on just one (family) and ignoring the other (themselves).
Kulea saa hii ni gamble kubwa sana hata ukiwa na pesa. There’s a 60 % chance that your little bonobos will not turn out right vile you envision in your head.
That means that there is s 60% chance you won’t enjoy your retirement. Big gamble I must say.
Easier said than done
One my biggest biz partners always curses the day he got kids. Those kids cant wait to inherit his wealth, wanauliza muzee atakufa siku gani aondoe jam ya parte after parte.
True. But it is a risk worth taking in my opinion.
There’s also a big chance the old geezer won’t see the end of 2020. Mambo yake itaisha aambiwe alikufa na korona. Ana bahati watoi hawajamgeuka wote
Ndio maana mimi husema kama lazima niowe lazima niowe kitu imesimama below 23 years. If i have to pass through fire i may as well choose the hottest. Imagine kuhangaishwa ivi vyote na sura kiatu ata uwezi taka kutokea nayo mtaa
I grew up in a proper upper middle class neighbourhood and I can tell you that it is easier said than done. Balancing between between being a great father and chasing the bag is an illusion and many people never find the balance.
I’m one of the few kids who went to public schools while everyone else ilikua ni expensive private schools. Very few kids you can say have met their parent’s expectations. Kazi ni muguka hapo nyuma ya Engen.
Deportees pia wamekua wengi sana hio mtaa desolutioned after spending 15 years in Trumpland then wanakuja kuanzia zero.
Wazee wameretire and they have got nothing to show in how their kids turned out.
Sad cases nakwambia.
I think ni huyo tu mmoja hajamgeuka. But mzee pia yeye inakaa alikula densi sana akasahau familia
Is this a movie or real life?
Daily occurrence in parts of sendoro. Wazee hutumiwa kama miwa na wanatupwa