Kuishi kwingi kuona Mengi. Na hio Mengi nimeona. And if there’s one advice I can give to any woman is that in the modern world, love is not enough. Lazima uwe na wera yako, pesa zako, opportunity ikija usiwache ati juu ya mapenzi. Nimeona wengi waliacha opportunities na jobs poa for love nakwambia saa hii their life is in complete shambles. Walitaka mapenzi Wakayafata in the end they missed the man or the love or the marriage and the economic opportunity. Please ladies usiwahi acha a good opportunity bcz of a man. Hawa wanaume sio mama yako ati atakuvumilia. And sacrifice their all for you. My friend utashanga after sacrificing opportunities vile utatupwa kama javelin even after big weddings. I am not telling you hypothetical situations. Mungu amenisaidia sijapigwa major character developments but mimi pia ni muoga sana immediately I see problems coming to the door I jump out through the window. So imeniokoa na maovu Mengi. And I also not an angel nimepiga wanaume character development wengine wakajiua but wale niliweza I apologized when I came to my senses and realized nimewakosea and they still followed me to continue with the relationship but mimi staki baggage, ati oh in 1956 ulinifanyia xyz. I always like a clean slate bcz men weaponise your mistakes to justify why they are doing all manner of evil. Ati si ata wewe in 1967 ulifanya abcd. Wanaume walinipiga character development waliaga so siezi hold grudge kwa maiti or maiti to hold grudge against me. Anyway as at now nimekua Mzee siwezani na mambo mingi ukinpea stress kidogo nakuondokea coz Sijui kama ni deni ya China nitalipa ama ni stress za mtu haezi ata ni saidia nitashughulikia. Please I’m now too old for stress and drama. All I will do is block you every where coz Sina hio nguvu anymore. Nachoka speedy. Hata siezi bishana coz na jaribu kusave battery, simu ni Mzee niko save mode. But I digress, as a lady wekamaisha yako mbele. Men are also in US no need to miss opportunities bcz of a broke guy in Kenya that’s called oneitis Yaani you falsely believe that there is only one soul mate in the world for you. Which is a myth. Wazungu ni wengi wanat Amani someone like you. Go for the opportunity and mwanaume utaongezewa kama ugali Sosa…
If an opportunity arises for a couple, they discuss and see if it fits their goals. If it does, one can go but he/she has to arrange for the other to join them as soon as possible. Sometimes paperwork may delay things, but as long as that’s the mission, a time delay is ok. However if one feels it’s a good opportunity and the other doesnt, it’s best to break up/divorce right then. No couple can survive shifted goals. Men/Women have physical needs that need to be addressed. In my experiences, those SMS relationships have a 100% failure rate. I saw married women, as responsible as they can be, living like single 20 year olds behind closed doors.