niaje wasee, so it happened yesterday i received a call from my luo wife who we have separated for like 1 year now. actually we patched things up and we have been on good terms. hata kuna time she comes kuchuna mboga ya lunch at my home. she even agrees for me to spend time with our 3-year-old over the weekend. so jana she called me and told me she wants to come chuna some mbogas as usual. she came with our kid and i told her to cook some chapos for me. she was at first hesitant but akakubali kuingia kwa nyumba and agreed to cook some. i ran to the shop to get flour and cooking oil. kurudi napata mtu ananioshea viombo. our kid was very happy to see his mom in Dad’s kitchen from what i noticed coz he has not seen that for quite a while. but sasa as she was cooking nilikuwa nataka niombe mali but i kept off coz of fear of how she would react. i called this very close friend of mine and told him mama wa kwangu amerudi na ako kwa nyumba anapika chapo. guess what? the guy told me toka kwa nyumba haraka na umwache huko. i asked him why should i do that. he told me that if i get out and leave her and our kid in the house it will command more respect. she will respect me more and i will prove to her that my intentions were not just to get her inside the house so as to fuck her. yani i have to prove that i am above that and i want real connection with her. but i argued with him and asked him what if this lady amenimiss na anataka nimchape hiyo kitu. he told me just get out my friend. so i agreed nikatoka. i came back in the evening nikapata ameshaenda na ameniwachia chapo kadhaa hapo. but i kinda regreeted coz hio kitu nimeitamani for so long and felt like that was a chance lost coz if probably ningehang around the house maybe ningepata nyau. yer i really want her back in my life and in my arms so bad. what do you think guys? did my friend give me the best advice ama? do you think leaving her in the house will command more love and respect ama huyu jamaa alinipotosha tu? sounds like i did something against what i wanted. but maybe the guy logically speaking he could be right. munaona aje?
regretted coz hiyo kitu nimeitamani for so long. just remembering how good and sweet she was just wants to me grab her and fuck her like crazy. she is luo remember. so her sex is really sweet. i guess am still in love with this lady. but am araid to ask for pussy. pia yeye naona aniogopa kiasi. so it’s like we want each other but kuna kale kauoga kako tu. i guess its because of the distant thing. but next time i will definitely have to taste this pussy. coz mimi naona hiyo ni mzigo tu nikuwa nimeletewa.
Her coming to cook for you and you creating tht space is a good starting point. I personally believe there are no big differences tht can’t be solved. Now try to identify the issues tht led to your separation and talk to her. Also don’t be tempted kukula vitu. It could also be a trap so be careful. Above all find a way to solve the differences
taken into consideration also. i have to trade carefully. i have to make sure amechange kabisa na harudi na ile upus ilifanya tukosane in the first place.
not really. or i say not sure. though she sometimes used to come home late. and i asked her she would answer me rudely. then akaanza kuniyima mguu.i mean akaanza kuniakazia hio kitu nikajua hapa kuna shida.
Wewe ata holy water haiezi kusaidia…anakuja late,ukimuuliza anakujibu rudely then anakunyina itina?? Hiyo nyau ilikuwa inatoka kutandikwa kama punda inaletwa kwako kunurse injuries.
i never found any suspecting message on her call. though i would hear some of her male customers calling her and she would talk with them when am there. so kama alikuwa anacheza game basi alikuwa anacheza game ya hali ya juu sana enye hata kususpect ingekuwa ngumu. never took that seriously untill her behavior started to make me think again but i never caught her with another guy.