Yaani is it ethical to call patients trying to convince them how much they need a kid? Aseme tuu I need that half million you were going to pay me. Imagine from 2023 na vile yeye huwa busy. Ati just come we talk. Mimi I just go we talk with a man?
The only business I have left with men is when I want them to do something for me. Beyond that I have no other business with these XYs. During the six month waiting period where he told me to get hormonal (fertility) and follicle count tests every month. Not to mention like 40 tests of every part of my body,adi nikapata sina asthma Aga Khan told me I have.It was totally insane the number of tests I did. Plus he only sent you to the best and most expensive doctors.Even my sinuses were checked. All good except my nose bone being a bit crooked.
So when my people realised that I abandoned that quest of having biological kids, they now started budgering me to adopt a child. So I donāt want to raise my biological child but I will rose a strangerās child I donāt know from Adam? Like I donāt understand how people reason sometimes.
Short of immaculate conception Iām not having children probably until I go down to my grave. I may have wanted one at one point but I also wasnāt in a good head space by then. Thank God for small mercies that I got a busy doctor with a 6 months wait period.
He was really interesting,we never talked about my issues I would pay him five thousand and wait for him for hours for me to give him a therapy session or talk about politics for at most 10 minutes. Let me tell you,no occupation beats being a doctor.
I remember him reprimanding me when I told him I was going to get a white sperm donor and he said you want tumuzungu when we are here? I just laughed.
Heās a good sport, Iād recommend him anyday.but if you are impatient heās not your guy.I would not have been a good mother anyway. Iām too self centered and how about the process of pregnancy and childbirth, breastfeeding! Potty training. Waking up nights.
I know here someone stole my slip from the doctor on fertility tests basically hormone tests.Yes I did those every month for 6 months and they were ok else heād have put me on medication.I wonder if my DCI boyfriend would be interested in finding out who steals personal medical from my phone. Probably how yāall steal info from MPs phones innit.
But I digress, if I really want kids theres thousands to adopt. I havenāt. Actions speak louder than words. I know I have spoiled your reproduction rate or whatever but itās my uterus. No matter what you say, my uterus is returning to its maker as it was created. Again your opinion is of no consequence. Have more kids to make up for the deficit. You are just not worth the trouble! Nothing personal! This is a child free zone! We have as much right not to have kids as you do to have them. Remember that a child isnāt a toy that you can return or give away if you realise that you made a mistake. Hereās to all brave people who are childfree by choice. Happiness be yours 
years, even if they will be visiting after every four months (during school closures).