Akothee seek advice from Betty Kyallo and Zari on how to deal with these sugar baby. You can not be getting depression from mwanaume unalisha. If you are a feeding program you should be happy 24’7 like Betty Kyallo and Zari. Sio mambo na hospitali, you are only allowed to be depressed about a man if you are under 30. Mtu ameza and amelea watoto Sita haezi pata depression juu ya mwanaume. How many men can achieve what Akothee has achieved. Madam boss pea nunu break from age 15 to 35 is 20 years of kuzaa nonstop watoto sita. You are suffering from pussy fatigue Madam boss.
Number 2 don’t entertain a man who mistreated you when you were a teenager, threw you out when you were pregnant and he has never helped you financially to raise your children. Fine he’s the father of your kids but fatherhood is responsibility. Let his kids relate with him but don’t entertain him in your home and your functions. Mwanaume haezi Kuja graduation ya mtoto haijawahi lipia fees since azaliwe. You are teaching your daughters to condone poor treatment and irresponsibility from men. Your own dad allowed you to be married when you are a child instead of protecting you usome, he gladly married you off. So you have been betrayed by Luo men all your life, mzungu ulizaa naye, he gave you a meter for your hospital bill, he supports his kids financially unlike Baba Vesha who is a dead beat dad who comes for graduations.
You are depressed because you are entertaining people who have abused and abandoned you in your life. You are entertaining men who are using you. You can not be a single mother of 6 and entertaining dead beats, so called Baba Vesha, a man who abused you, put you out to give birth on the streets when you were a child who should have been in school. Imagine if a man treated your daughters like that would you entertain him in the name of forgiveness? You know your culture and your men. They are irresponsible and they expect women to do for them every thing. Why did you link up with a Luo man and you had enough experience to tell you that they were not good, responsible men? From Baba Vesha to Mr. Nelson Oketch aka Nelly Oaks uneza fikiria mtu ametoka Jamaica na hizi majina wanajipa.
You can lie to yourself but you can’t lie to your body and to your psyche bcz the body keeps the record of all the trauma you have been through. Anyway, check how Zari relates to her exes and her sugar babies. Borrow a leaf and treat men how they treat You. Don’t kill yourself trying to be a nice girl, remember that your daughters are watching you and that’s where they will get their self esteem. You can not let these entitled men ruin your mental health. Furthermore don’t mix business with pleasure, don’t sleep with your employees. Zari doesn’t. Betty Kyallo does not.