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MY DEADBEAT BABY DADDYđ«Ł
The most useless thing I got my daughter was Tom. Na mtu asijaribu kunichekelea, itâs true women can fall in love with mad men and still expect to change them. (
it never happens).
Sometimes when people talk of narcissists I am like hamko serious, you have not met one I bet. One day I will write about how my choices for one made my life miserable. Really really miserable. The worst part about ending a relationship with a narcissist and you share child is that you will keep paying for that immoral escapede for longer than you think. And in my next life, I am not sharing a lifetime with anyone from Nyanza province. (Forgive me, I sound tribal but I am not. When it comes to matters of heart , even âI love youâ from a luo man will make me run, lock myself in a public toilet for 30days, just hiding from future suffering, for the little heart left.
The beautiful photo below is for my baby daddy, Tom (he was once everything I wanted ). Today, this man is so poor, no, he became so poor on the day I busted him for lying. Since then he is forever poor. Poor enough to leave his daughter completely for me. That must be serious poverty.
Him: Terry ukapata ball yangu ingine unaeza Fanya.
Me: (I didnât even think). I will kill myself. I donât think thereâs a woman who is happy to have a child from a man who doesnât do anything to help even a little. Itâs true another child from you would be so tragic.
Him: You hate my child?
Me: Are we talking about hating our child?
Co-parenting ended here. But what is a father without parenting. What is a baby daddy without really parenting?
Tom naye alifanya nikajidharau sana. This one made me carry belle for 9 months like a widow yet he had promised that hii ni mzigo yetu. I still raise his daughter alone because he is too poor to afford meeting her. Too poor to afford airtime to check on her.
I loved the photo he shared about how happiness is good nikakumbuka vile Nairobi inanipeleka mbio na ukoo yake.
