Kwa wale wako na experience kama @Chief mbitika…how did you go about it… especially kutoa ushamba ndani yao
Sijui anasemanga hivi…
You can remove her from the village, but you can never remove the village from her
i don’t get why you people think that learning how to use a microwave, light a gas stove, or use a Tv remote is what makes someone be wife material. wengi wetu tulilelewa mashambani, these things tumezionea nairobi, but that did not make us ‘not men enough’. we just learn how to do things differently, not that were are stupid but just because we did not encounter them earlier. Back to your story, that innocent village girl is already the best wife material. kama kwao hawana fridge an uko nayo, muonyeshe how to use it. stop confusing intelligence and education.
I remember a cousin making fun of me (with pun intended to hurt me) because I could not use a remote, she had landed Nairobi a few years earlier. namchukia kiasi to date coz of how she repeatedly tried to embarrass me for the ushamba, yet she had only arrived Nairobi a few years earlier and another great relative was hosting us after al.
Achana na wasichana washamba wa ushago…
When you are looking for a wife, find yourself a girl you can tell stories and jokes and laugh all night and not the one you can fuck the whole night.
Ni hayo tu kwa sasa.
Never date or marry someone who is an outright village buffoon but if you unfortunately marry one, you have to patiently teach her how to be a modern and civilized person though she has to be obedient and submissive enough for you to train her. if she is a stubborn person, i am pretty sure you wont make it far with her.
When i married my wife she had typical village behaviors but she has changed. She used to cook stew with several litres of thin soup. Akiniserve chakula anaweka rice one plate and stew another plate. Akienda soko ananinunulia zile tshirts za chicago bulls fake. But she changed gradually.
:D:D:D:D:D:D nmeachia hapa kwanaza juu sa nshaanza kucheka with several litres of thin soup
Really?:D:D
Too much work converting a village lady. I will get myself a town woman with those scary long finger nails tupelekane mahali tutapelekana.
There is nothing village in what you have described. Just different methods of cooking. She liked the thin soup, that does not make your preferred taste better
Sahani ya supu kando… Hahaha. They must have been poor.
The one for being gifted poor quality shirts you can’t wear, by people you can’t let down ndio huuma. You can’t say “no, I can’t wear this”. Inabidi tu uchukue knowing very well you will never wear it
66 years ago , a famous fellow took this one to State House …
She didn’t do too badly …
And neither did Junior … 
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I grew up in Nairobi lakini I very much hate this tabia ya making fun of mtu because of supposed “ushamba”. Mwanzo the one doing it ndio me huona akiwa mshamba. It’s just like a language or a culture. You learn and adapt
Ngina and Ouru. Giving us our worst nightmares ever!
when we where kids in the 90s NBA and FOOTBALL MADE IN GERMANY were the real deal kama EPL saa hii, sijawai elewa how the EPL just killed off basketball from the kenyan culture. if through a generation a way of life can be weaned out , then am sure a generation of Kenyans can kill off the culture of corruption .
Kumbe wewe ni kitoto.
Ngina is the daughter of a paramount chief
Hehehehehe …
Paramount where …??
Ushamba/Exposure in a chick doesnt matter, the main thing would be intelligence. Wangapi tumeona wametoka ocha na wakawa ma slay wa hapa jiji, vera sidika and akothee come to mind.
Bora awe intelligent, you can discuss weighty matters with her and she can offer solid opinions…na sio kunguru. What else?
:D:D:D:D monger umenichekesha sana