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Ita baba yako and have a talk man-to-man. Most importantly, be respectful but firm. Not all dads are mature and some have to be confronted. Its a bad position to be in but you must do it. Some men can exploit the respect of a parent and you must grow some balls to check them. I reiterate - be respectful as much as possible while still being firm that free lunches are over.
If I was in your position, I would tell him that he only qualifies for one free meal per week. If he brings his friends they have to pay in cash.
It is only when a mosquito lands on your balls that you realize there are better ways to solve problems without using violence.
Thats a tricky situation with no winners. Either way lazima mtu aumie.
That guy is an very precarious situation. The father might incite the public against him.
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Fcuk it,alipe pia yeye. Omuafurika ni ngamia tu. Biashara na familia ndo mwisho yake. No debate there. [SIZE=1]yeah i said it!![/SIZE]
I understand that its a bad spot to be in. Unfortunately for him, his dad is an immature alcoholic. He doesn’t have a choice but to confront him or else biashara itaanguka. However, he has to be respectful as much as possible when having that unpleasant talk.
This notion that parents can do no evil is outdated and misinformed. Sure, most parents are okay. But some parents kama huyo have to be confronted and there is no way around it. Some parents can be malicious and take advantage of their children’s generosity - kama huyo mzee kukula kwa biashara daily and even inviting his friends for free food. Its a very bad spot to be in but a man has to do what a man has to do.
If I was in that bad spot which I hope to never find myself in, I would give him only one free meal per week arudishie mwili shukrani. Anything beyond that or anything his friends eat should be paid for in cash.
I second
Kwa Kinyozi family lazima ilipe. Liwalo liwe?
The guy should just tell the mother, she will handle it vilivio.
Next…
Alipe,nyama huwa haipandwi kwa shamba
Very selfish guy.
Kama biashara inafanya poa, why not extend gratirute to Mzae for bringing him up.
Maybe mzae hana mtu wa kumpikia home.
What is wrong with this generation?
Ungrateful pricks.
No case here, just tell dad you making losses. A sensible father will listen and act accordingly. Lakini mzee akule…mabeshte wapige kubwa kubwa.
I once worked with a guy whose father was a drunkard and he would come kwa job na ulevi na kubonga shit.
The guy used to kick him out.
Hii ni raisi.Hapa unachezea mzae cold war na ile design. Unamjazia chumvi na pilipili hadi ana get the point na kujitoa pole pole. Itabidi amekoma na vako ya black tax.
Clearly the guy has no issue but the father is clearly taking advantage.
Big problem,nanyoa fudhii tu sooooooo,you do get conundrum there,no shaving close family
Iyo ngamia ungepata angekuwa lanye wake anakula hapo daily hangekuwa na issue.I know of a butcher guy who entertains lanyez kwa biz yake hadi anawapea free meat and he extends those loses kwa clients, there is a way he plays with the digital weighing scale huwezi ata jua
At least Lanyes service him.