Today classic fm ilikuwa For how long should mother in law visit?
Mother in law hafai kupitisha siku tatu, sasa unapataa wengine wanaover stay hadi 2 weeks. …
Jamaa moja amedai tactics za kumfukuza ni kupita pita na boxer sitting room…
Leteni heka za vile mother in law alikatalia kwako?
Kwanza wale wabaya ni wale hufikiria bado ako kwake
Nikiwa campus kuna jamaa alikuwa anafanya huko, and had just married so they lived in bedsitter and didnt have even sofa, sister ya jamaa alikuwa anakaa huko ili aende computer college, na alikuwa anadoz chini.
Mother in law naye akatembea na since hakuna place ya kudoz jamaa anajitoa dio adoz kwa kitanda. Alikuwa ananunua muguka anakesha na watchman. After three days ju alikuwa neighbor nikaanza kumpea place ya kudoz but nayeye project zangu za final exam alinihelp sana ju ya kumuokolea for two weeks
Mother in law kwangu hutembea mchana when am away and by the time I get back ashaenda zake. It’s the kids who will tell me later ‘cucu alikuwa amekuja’.
Lakeside and western guys hawawezi kulala na mother-in-laws wao under the same roof. Let alone the mother to the husband or the wife sleeping on the matrimonial bed. You can take that to equity.
My mum cannot sleep in my house…I think its traditional ama? (Gikuyu). But my mum in law comes over once in a long while, she is fun to be with and the kids love her( I always make sure she has her amarula or baileys) and she doesn’t overstay her visit.
In my culture in laws are only seen on special occasions. child birth, I’ll health and celebrations we have a saying, ‘In-laws are not visited visited’
Mtu kwao ni Thika sioni kwa nini mzazi akuje kuishi kwake (assuming he was staying in Nairobi). In my hustling days kuna hao ingine ya neighbor wife msap huzzie mkao, both mother in-laws came on the same day. Wote walishare bed ya the couple, who were forced to make other sleeping arrangements.
Reminds me of a quote I saw long time ago( I think in reader’s digest- laughter is the best medicine) " How comes In-laws are unwanted and outlaws are wanted?" I found it funny and ironical.
Sorry for this post.
But they could be products of mturandom subject of obsession. Some things are an abomination to us children raised by both parents.