Apparently; we as Human Beings go through this at least once in our lives.
A period of time in which we feel like the best thing is to stay away from Everyone. From all our relatives and friends.
A period of time in which we feel that Nobody understands us and therefore the best thing is to Lock everyone out!
I would like to know kama anyone has gone through this kind of moment in their life here on KTalk and if nobody has; then i will delete this Posting kesho and pretend it never existed.
A problem shared is a problem solved.
I will give you all a Hekaya on my “Moment of Isolation” if i get 5 responses on this issue.
If i can`t get 5 peole to relate to me then i will assume that i am a Mental Case and keep it to myself.
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Kabuda sidika you’re up to your usual antics. Hope tanaswa hasn’t divorced you
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I feel this
At the moment, for whatever reason (Allah knows best), if my phone rings in the evenings i am immediately angered. I dont even bother looking at it. And if i do, i respond faster faster or tell them to call me at a better time. Ofcourse, this habit has me at loggerheads with several of my family members but, its the way it is.
Some few years ago, I used to spend my weekends in the house without even opening the front door. Hata uknock aje, hata uwe nani. I used to enter my crib on friday only to be seen on monday. Colleagues even got used to this oddity.
I only got better when i invited some guy to live with me. Otherwise, hata kuoa ingekuwa ngumu when the time comes. Atleast I can now share space with people. This tabia affects my relationships with ladies. It is only cool if she doesnt spend more than a night with me. On the second day, while anyone else would be rejoicing, mi naskia ni ka niko jail. One time my girlfriend came visiting me from a different town, nakumbuka how i used to jichelewesha job, kujipa tushughuli ndo nifike home late. Na nkifika kwa hao, lazma nichape gauge ndo nilessen feeling ya jela.
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Mimi kuna time nazima simu, nafunga nyumba, natulia solo
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Thanks for your honesty.
I was actually hoping for this kind of response.
I once invited an old girlfriend of mine from another country and 2 days kabla afike i decided that i wanted to be alone so nikanyonga simu and apparently she came,looked everywhere for me and all she had was a phone number No address so akajipa shughuli for 2 or 3 days living in a hotel after which she took a plane back to her country.
All these time nimenyonga simu for no apparent reason.
I have never forgiven myself for that and the worst thing is that she was a Single mother and she had her “pointee” daughter in tow.
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Si unanijua tu. Just same old me seeking attention from KTalkers … Nothing new!..
Lala salama Bro.
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Being an introvert is awesome
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8 comments already? Phew! At least now you can open up and tell us something about yourself. You’ve always been a closed book.
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LOL. Ati kujifungia nyumba na hamtaki kuongea na watu…hahaha. Mna ufala sana.
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Well yeah man. There are those times when you feel like shutting everything and everyone out. Personally, it has led to a lot of conflicts with my love interests. They just don’t get that you need to tune out the noise and revel in the silence from time to time and go Zen.:)
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I Cant decide who i like More; You or @uncle nyam ! One thing is for sure; KTalk would be one Depressed village if we were all Like you two. I dare either of you to start any New thread and i swear by both my Pair of Nuts that i wont post anything here for 6 Months.
By the way,i have something that might cheer you up @Nefertities …
Fetch!..
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You got me. I can’t start a thread because I posted a thread saying I would never post another thread and then posted a thread asking the admins to delete my profile. :eek: or was that you? I can’t quite remember …
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si ufala @tm wa klist , we are that kind of people who at times just want our “me time”. time is spent reading stuff, reviewing issues and life…the least i would want at such a time is the nye nye nye of a chatterbox woman…even my regular companion and family members know to respect that time…
Saturday Night all alone in Kenya.
Not a single request by friend or foe to go out.
I can always take it out on some other person on the Net…
Where did it all go so wrong,i ponder…
The Sadness of Life for a single woman in Kenya today…
But i could always “play with myself” so its not All bad…
SHIT! I`m on my fucikng PERIODS!..
I HATE EVERYONE!!!..
Regards; @Nefertities .
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You shouldn’t be so mean. Us girls need to stick together.
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Did u ask for forgiveness…because what you did is awful
You said it …
I wanted to call you a bitch but i like reading your comments when you are not being so Hormonal.
Seriously,i REFUSE to be offended by you @Nefertities . kikikiiikkiiikikikii…
I love my African Sistas too much to dis you!..
I want to give you a Hug instead!.. @Nefertities ,…hug?..???..
The saddest part is that i never made contact with her until after she landed back to her country and thia was a few weeks later and she asked me never to call her again.
That was 15 years ago.
Sadness of Life…
Sorry my vag got in the way of this manly and unemotional discussion. Wiminz on perpetual periods, amirite?