Do you know what is the most calming thing? It’s when you realise that you won’t die if you just live for yourself! After all the sickening patriarchal brainwashing, after many years of deprogramming consciously or unconsciously from the patriarchal abuse, one day you wake up and feel completely at peace! Absolute peace. After you have been quiet enough to find your voice again. One day you will wake up and you will be whole. Not conflicted or confused or desperate! Whole! And then you will understand - growth,self love,self reliance have no age limit! As long as you are alive, you can find yourself again! You are just buried under the rubble of the patriarchy. One day you will wake up and feel a twinge of a smile and feel at peace and have equilibrium. That day is coming! 
