"Men are easily deceived by perceptions. That’s why a few years into marriage, they suddenly realise how raw the deal was; but it’s always way too deep & late to do anything about it. "
Bachelors always win
We jamaa kama umewezwa na kutongoza msichana uoe, face your demons alone. You are misleading young wonna be family guys here. Wewe na ule shoga @Kimakia mko sawa.
There’s this small matter ya the age of women we should be dealing with
It has been found that young girls wanatembeza Kuma ka tyre ya Grand Coach
Unipe heshima mimi…uliza mamako ulikotoka na atakuonyesha mimi
Yesterday a close friend told me he’s had enough of his union after more than 2years, good thing they dont have kids yet, hopefully there won’t be any tears or gnashing of teeth during the separation (though I know it’s likely to be messy) it’s sad but it vindicates my views, which are similar to those of Kirubi.
I see it different… Young gal in this country is 18 to 20… If you find one within this age na mkae pamoja na akose kucheza nje one month, that’s a keeper…
Hiyo ni true wife umetumiwa na mungu… If you marry a gal age 23 onwards in Kenya sahii atakuja na too much baggage… Unalia mileage hio utakuta inashinda SGR… Halafu majamaa kama 200 na akaabort Mara 29… Or ako na watoto ameficha kwao… Or anakuanga Ameoleka Ukambani na wew ni Husband Wa Nairobi…
The pitfalls are too many… Angalia those celebs wameoa wanawake over 23… Most of Those relationships aren’t sustainable…
Oh dear…what next?
Nourahaishuo
Nothing but the truth here
No diramahaica …nowe utigariite
Bado hujapatana na mama wazee past 26 years wanakushow
“BTW unajua nowadays mimi ata huwa sikatiwi coz i have lost interest in men”
Hapo unajua tu mileage iko from here to Kismayu
There is nothing as sweet as marrying the right woman
We can’t have our cake and eat it. Kama ni young, jua tu utakua unakula na wengine. But at keast hakuji na negativity kama hawa wa 25+
All women huwezi Kula peke yako miaka yote … But there is pleasure in knowing mulianza na clean sheet, both in baggage and extremely low mileage…
Mtu akitaka kukusalimia baadaye ata nisawa tu…
Hehehe the fallacy ati hutawahi tombewa gets shattered after year 5 in marriage
I know a couple of guys wanatombewa nje… They wouldn’t care less… Infact Sisi hucheka about it in the pubs, pitying the other dude na ile kitu wanakula yenye ilimalizwa utamu kitambo … halafu partly relieved that they don’t have to go back and hump the tired heifer out of duty call after a good time with a youngin…
Halafu their women think eti the fellas don’t know… Hehehe kumbe jamaa wanajifanya mafala… But are enjoying the presha relief
This is absolutely true. After procreation most men lose that fiery sexual attraction towards their wives. I guess ni juu ya lack of spontaneity, daily routine and general kuzoeana sana. People just stick around coz of the kids now.
Unapata jamaa hawezi mind kutombewo as long the wife does not get paged out there.
Hapo ndio unapata married men envying us eternal bachelors.
Marriage is only slavery if you are a peasant. In my opinion, there is a certain income threshold below which naweza ambia mtu asioe juu atajiumiza. For example, a guy earning 30k hii Nairobi siwezi mwambia aoe juu akioa atajipata Githurai bila savings. Breaking out of the rat race is 10X harder ukienda kuoa na kupata watoto ukiwa peasant. Make sure you can afford a decent life for yourself first before marrying, because marriage is a financial decision. I encourage marriage but with a dose of financial common sense.
Not that hawezi mind hajali ata akitombewa, it’s actually comical kuskia kuna mtu anapandilia hiyo kitu ulichoka nayo kitambo… And if she indeed gets paged out there that’s almost a victory dance coz you got a way out…
I really doubt though that most married men envy bachelors… Too many perks and priviledges that bachelor’s miss out on…
Depends on whom you marry, you can get a wife who can really complement you business wise, making a conducive environment, advicements nini nini, mukafunge Hadi ushangae…
Ama uangukie ghaseer takataka yenye inakula pesa kukula bila ideas za kujenga Mali wala, kukupatia morale ya kutafuta pesa ndio hiyo unaongelea…