You are sold a lie that to avoid loneliness get married then you will have a companion for life. In actual fact you are not getting a companion, you are getting a leech who will suck you dry and give you nothing in return. Men are leeches , after they leech you dry they move to the next host. That’s why it’s women filing for divorce, as long as a woman has something for the man to leech on , he’s not leaving. It’s up to you the woman to get rid of the leech.