based on imei’s post and his situation…men and confidence plus courage in kitu complicated sana…men are different kuna wenye lugha ndio iflow lazima kanywaji…alafu kuna wale kwa text wako na lugha lakini ikifika kupiga simu am a face to face wako nje…same as these twitter big wigs…word is some of them are socially inept kabisa…
as much as mi huwa confident …siwezi ongelesha dame kwa matatu …alafu kuapproach madame in a group of more than two ngumu sana…
watu hujichocha APA ukieza ambia MTU aitishe number anaogopa
Happy to hear that men chicken out in presence of women. We rule this world Chini ya maji. To all pink handles Cheers!
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I also think some women face the same problems towards a man they are interested in.
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ni uchomoki kuongelesha dem kwa mat itabidi ume mlipia fare Fom ni ku bonda nani
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as for me i have a bit of anxiety on the phone,its highly likely that kutakua na akward moments of silence,but face to face 'm better off. texting bores me easily, nawaachanga hanging most of the times or take too long to reply
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hehe,msee hungoja kondakta alipishe kwanza…
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some situation si zote
Not all, not always. Depends on one’s disposition at the moment.
Not necessarily, if she looks chat-able, go ahead. Each will pay their own with no awkwardness.
Want to know if she is easy?
Check on her sitting position
The position of her arms
Phone use or book reading
Is she in or out? Mentally
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must confess in my earlier days i was awkward with girls…i don’t know what changed or when…
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How do easy girls sit??
Kwetu sisi talanta sio ndumba.
Siwez chapiana na mresh ya kwa mat na c uwoga ni principle nani… Mtu afanye shughuli yake, stone face brathe
Tried in a mat failed terribly
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NIKIKUNYWA GILBEYS NAWEZA WEKA HATA HILLARY CLINTON BOX
Hands on the lap/bag
Arms uncrossed
Scarcely uses her phone, if she is, it’s fidgety. No earphones, or just one earpiece plugged in the ear
Not reading a book, or constantly looking up or sideways from it
She turns her head to look your way or upfront(sideways glance)
She looks in and around the matatu e.t.c
And by easy I mean open to conversation
kama nimedanganya acha waseme
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hekaya buda
kwa mat huwesmake… unless una sura yenye madame wanapenda lenga tu hiyo story… madame hudharau wanaume wanatumia matatu… kwanza kama umetumia macoins mob kulipa fare…
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NIKIKUNYWA GILBEYS NAWEZA WEKA HILLARY CLINTON
AHSANDE MWALIMU
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I am very poor at texting and chatting over chatting apps or online, I develop anxiety sijui kwa nini I prefer face to face communication or calling