This is from an old thread by @thesavage:
Let me just leave this here…
I am talking to the younger boys in here, kina Mr. 1st Year, 2nd Year, ###rd Year, whatever. Na pia wale mnaanza maisha after colle.
There are mistakes men make. Like fucking around and getting girls pregnant and those girls go off and bring up their sons and daughters with some other men, or alone. Avoid that if you can. (Ms Truwoman Kampundit atakusho hiyo story kwa kina zaidi).
But that is not the mistake I am talking about today.
Nataka kukwambia a mistake I would consider more grave than hiyo. This problem is going to be there for you guys in the future. We of the previous generation nafikiri tulikwepa.
Mistake gani?
Kuoa kunguru.
Mimi nimesikia kunguru kutusiwa hapa, kufokewa etc etc.
Leo nataka niwaambie ni kwa nini.
In this age of social media and party life, kuna vile…
Usually, between the age of 28-30, many women wake up and reassess the last decade of their life.
They try to find the reason they have not been able to obtain a long term monogamous commitment from the high fliers she has been fucking on the party train.
During this stage many women make radical shifts in their priorities. They adjust the list of prerequisite traits that qualify as attractive in a man. In party years she is interested in physicality, sexual prowess and dominance. But she has now realized that guys like Mr. Physicality, Mr. Sex, Mr. Dominance, will forget them as soon as the d*ck comes out of her possy.
Now her list of prerequisite qualities becomes; [B]dependability, ability to provide, humor /B, ati intellect, ati [B]compatibility /B [puliiiiiiz]
This where you come in, Mr. Young Man.
A common manifestation of the shift for these social media birds is convenient return to religious convictions she has disregarded kwa hizo party times.
Hata anaweza kupata kitu wanaita secondary virginity . Hiyo ni the refusal to have sex under auspices/conditions of her party times…in the hopes that some dunderhead will show up who appreciates her for her (newly acquired) prudence…same woman who was fucking like a rabbit the last 10 years, now is a prude. Heheheheee…
Woman kunguru who disappered from your radar akiwa na ukunguru mingi kutembeza kwa mtandao…suddenly shows up in your radar with pegion (jiwa) tendencies.
Heheheheee…
If you marry that woman, she will never respect you. In her subconscious, you are the clueless dolt who settled for matapishi, who settled for mabaki, sloppy seconds, kitu imetumika vibaya. Wewe ni mjinga according to her, and according to everyone else out there. Pia, she will always compare your performance to that of the highfliers she was never able to clinch. You will be found wanting. She will not have chosen you, she will only have settled for you. Utakuwa something she doesnt really want, something she just tolerates. Pole.
So, Chunga. Watch out, young man.
Take off, young man. Kimbia.
Ni hayo tu.