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Has anyone dated/married someone who completely lied about who they were? Had many wives, invented a career, had an entire family on the other side of town, a fugitive…
My former now late husband lied about his entire life. He had spent years in prison, was shot by police prior to arrest . Obviously had a criminal record I knew nothing about and I knew he had been in the army but not about the dishonorable discharge, etc
I found out at 6 months pregnant that my daughter’s father was 20 years older than me (he always looked young) and his name wasnt what he told me #devastated .
Yes. My ex husband. He would lie about stupid shit. Like I had to write a list of every guy I had ever been with. First and last name when he berated and questioned to “see if my story changed” and then I would just ask him in return to do the same and all he would say is “3” no. I knew he had been with more than three people. He was ten years older than me and I just knew three was not right. I didn’t care but it was the principle of double standard and him calling me a whore etc bc “. I was with more people than him”. I knew of his criminal history but I don’t judge for past bc I don’t have the best past. But I didn’t know he was still doing criminal shit until I was already married.
My ex!!! While we were married and he was deployed fir the Army would shack up with another woman and live with them and treat her kids like they were his own!!! But his own he wouldnt take them to school, the doctor or even hang out in the living and watch tv
Yes my dad… 2 wives and many mistresses
Did everyone see that police chief out of Stinett, TX? He had 2 wives, 3 fiances and 5 girlfriends?? He was outed when one of the fiances posted their pic on FB and a mutual friend knew one of the wives and he got arrested for falsifying annulment papers and all kinds of other stuff. Jason Collier look it up it’s funny but I feel bad for all the women he was leading on.
Yup, I’m an empath. I seem to attract the narcissist. My daughters dad told me he was in the marines, tatts and all. He never was. Then He said he only had one child when we met. Come to find out, he had 2 others, so he had 4 total. I asked many times about this children question. He never admitted having more kids, yet he pays child support still. Def glad I got away from him. He lied all the time, stole money from me all the time, and I caught him talking and cheating on me with other women. We co-parent now, our daughter is 12 atm. He has a new girl, with a new baby, and I really feel sorry for her. I’ve saved a couple of girls from his lies, but I can’t save em all. I had many message me telling me they caught him in lies, which I would tell them the truth. I had no idea of any of his lies until I was 6 month pregnant, his father said " Did he tell you he was in the military?" That was the beginning of the end. We lasted about 6 more months. He had such a control over me, we were to be married and all. He’s not the first, but I def hope I don’t keep finding these men, that lie about everything.
Dated one of those. Wife, kids, criminal background… Called him on it, never heard from him again. Never saw him again either. I should have known he was shady when he said he didn’t have any social media accounts.
Not me but my friend who I worked with for years was married and had 3 kids, her husband set her flowers/gifts every week to work and came and met her for lunch as a surprise etc, he did work away a lot though. One day she opened a bank statement in error thinking it was the joint account it wasn’t it was his business account all the expenses were for things purchased in a town hundreds of miles away and not where he travelled to work. She confronted him and he confessed to being married to someone else for 15 years of their 20 year marriage and he had two kids with this other wife. Caused my friend to have a nervous breakdown and she was never the same again it was devastating
Dated a guy for a year and a half and found out that he had a another girlfriend during the same time period.
Also was married to a man who was into beastility didn’t find out until after we were married.
My ex husband definitely who I thought he was. He had so many other women and another wife and kids in another country
Yes —my ex-husband is a child molester. Had no clue and his family helped him hide his past. He has had 2 divorces because of this and his 3rd wife is in the dark about it blindly believing him. His family kept him out of the court system cuz it’s family he did it to. They sent him to treatment that he didn’t finish then when we had his niece and nephew living with us —that’s when his aunts decided I needed in on the family secret. So yeh he completely lied about who he is and to this day is still lying about who he is.
Yes. My oldest son’s dad. He lied about his career, family, upbringing…started talking to a girl from Australia online, moved to phone calls,(this was in the late 90’s) then purchased a plane ticket for her to fly here all while we were living together. I caught him on the phone, confronted him and moved out that night with my then 2 yr old. Finally found out he told her he was a single father, his wife had died. Also told other’s he had a son but had no contact because my family was upset I had a child with an “anglo” (white) man…ummmm I’m white. Ya I got lucky to get away. Haven’t seen or heard from him in 22 yrs and had his rights terminated when ny son was 7. Who knows what would’ve happened if I wouldn’t have caught him.
Yes. I worked with a guy who told everyone he was divorced and now single. Ended up dating him. A year later I found out he was still married, had a daughter. He cheated on his wife and she kicked him out. He moved in with the girl he cheated with.
So he was married with a kid and living with a girl and dating me.
I was married to a sociopath for a decade (we’re still technically married). I found out he was married to someone else as I was in labor and delivery having our first baby. Everything was a lie.
Dated a guy for three years, I was Australian and he was American but I met him in Australia through my best friends bf. He said he worked with autistic children in Australia and hence why he was there but he would travel back to America every few weeks for different peeeiods of time. I would call him at midnight and he would say he was driving the children he was teaching here or there( very strange) I took a holiday in the states eventually and realized he didn’t live this lavish life he lived on a guys couch it was just all lies rental cars etc. Also apparently had a wife. Still can’t figure out what his deal was
Yes my daughter’s father told me he was 26 (32) he told me he had 3 kids(6 at the time) he told me he had custody of his 2 daughter’s( he basically kidnapped them) he told me he lived with his aunt taking care of her( he lived with a girl he met just 4 months prior to us meeting) he had me break my lease because he had got us a house(turns out he never put the deposit down and I was now homeless with a 2 year old) this was when I was 20 and very naive
Yes. A paedophile. I found out left with my son who was 4 months old divorced him. He did 8 years in San Quentin.
You mean… Kapote ameandika thread na akajibu mwenyewe all this long.:D:D:D